how many children to have?

[bella88]

Re: how many children to have?

I think i would like to have atleast 2 or 3. no more than 3, no less than 2 (hopefully)

[bella88]

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@khattichic

I never really gave it much thought prior to marriage. After I got married, we knew we didn’t want kids right away, but when we were ready, we found out about some medical conditions of mine which led us down the road of surgeries and fertility treatments. We did IVF twice, first time we conceived our eldest son and the second time we had twins. We always joke that we bought one and got one free on that second round

I cannot have anymore children, but it doesn’t matter. I’m perfectly content with my 3 healthy and beautiful boys, alhamdullillah!

i think 3 is the best number of kids. its not too less, not too much. i know many people have alot more than 3 but i personally cant imagine having that much responsibility.

[somegroovychick]

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^ it’s always good to have one before deciding what is enough

[KKF]

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how many children to have? the answer is as many as you can financially support, physically take care and invest time in each child. i would say 3 kids 4 years apart!

[Hmmna]

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I wanted loads of kids and now I have one Ma sha Allah. I wouldn’t mind keeping it at one now tbh. Love her so much but childbirth oye wey… Husband is keen on 4 kids

[Gemini_the_Great]

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we are two sisters and I always wanted to have 3 kids so each kid has an option to play with a sibling if one is upset (hey that’s all a child usually thinks about :D)

I hve two now mashaAllah and I feel like I am good.. I am not someone who can breeze through pregnancy and I felt like I lost temper easily with my son while I was pregnant with my second one so probably I am done! time will tell.. I love newborns

[Deeba1234]

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I’d love 4 kids iA..
I only have one sibling but would love a big family.. would like to adopt as well as have my own if it’s possible.. a house full of kids and pets

[bella88]

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@Deeba1234

I’d love 4 kids iA..
I only have one sibling but would love a big family.. would like to adopt as well as have my own if it’s possible.. a house full of kids and pets

wow i would like to do the same thing. I was just talking to my husband the other day, i would like to have 2 biological and 2 adopted kids. But adoption is such a lengthy and expensive process here, so I dont know if i’ll be able to.

[Deeba1234]

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^Yeah, I worry about the process and if we’d even be accepted.. so many hoops to jump through.. would be amazing if we could..

My dad has suggested adopting a kid from ‘back home’ but that seems complicated as well..

[Reha]

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I’d consider two - maximum.

And with that, I’d also be adopting or supporting a needy child.

Kids are a handful

[Afia]

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I absolutely love babies.
Alhamdulillah I have four kids, two girls and two boys, and can’t imagine my life without any of them.

[Ne_ne]

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I have 1 girl and 1 boy…I want 1 more. hubby is does not want to have more kids.

[Royal_Gala]

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3 children in four years. Alhamdulilah!! I never knew how many I wanted to have.
I have my 2 princesses & a little prince
Couldn’t be more over-joyed with my kittens. Our family is complete mash-Allah.

[Ethan_Hunt]

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0/ too many folks in the world

[somegroovychick]

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@Royal_Gala

3 children in four years. Alhamdulilah!! I never knew how many I wanted to have.
I have my 2 princesses & a little prince

Couldn’t be more over-joyed with my kittens. Our family is complete mash-Allah.

You really are superwoman! MA! I somehow didn’t realize your Bachha party were all so close in age.