How Long Would it Take....

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Re: How Long Would it Take…

@Gemini_the_Great

Adopting a child isnt a piece of cake.. I believe it requires more physical, emotional, and mental power to raise a child thats not on your own.. I love my sisters kids to death but most of the time I am too afraid to say anything to discipline them just because I dont want anyone to think that since they are not mine, I can or shouldnt get away with it.

Personally, I dont think it’s an extreme to go for IVF or whatever it takes to have a biological child.. it’s a woman right and desire to become a mom and if she wants to seek medical help as much as possible..kudos to her.. in face I believe only a brave woman can give injections to herself and go through the emotional roller coaster of conceiving while some of us may not understand because we conceived within a year of ttc and often without any medical help!!

also, just because you and I may think how can I not love another child, our significant other may have a different thought process.. I know, my husband will probably not be comfortable with an idea of adoption if, god forbid, we couldnt have kids. Nothing wrong with it..it’s not everyone’s cup of tea and I/we shall respect that.

Everything is not so black and white when it comes to having kids and/or adopting kids. I hope I didnt offend anyone but just my two cents!

well said!