How long should you date?

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Dating is haram. Tauba tauba. What would your great great great great great great grandmother say?

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she will say 'great'

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just do it ..

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:omg:

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6mth-a yr

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You might want to refer to that other thread where the girl dated for 6 years and the marriage lasted 2 months.

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He is happy with his wife. I hope and pray he is happy and would always be. Though i still have feelings for him. This will go away enshalah.

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OH MY GOD!!!! severe signs of Qayamat.... WHY THE HELL DO YU WANT TO DATE SOMEONE FOR THAT LONG... ACTUALLY WHY DO YOU WANT TO DATE FUL STOP.... Im presuming you are muslim....ask your parents how long you should date, im sure they will have alot to say.... Ive been born and bred in the UK... thats so common and fustrating here.. you expect this behaviour from the goras... not from our muslims or pakistanis... Islam doesnt give you the option to date... meet with soemone else present to reduce temptation.. talk about religion and other things to find out what the person is like... your first and utmost should be that your prospective partner is religious... but form how you are talking you dont seem religious enough to understand the criteria for looking for a life partner.... VERY VERY SAD

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If I am right in assuming that this forum is mainly used by those who come from muslim asian backgrounds and most of them do have some morals, then you have definitely ended up on a wrong forum. I am sure there will be other places you will find like minded people who can help you.

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Depends on the purpose of DATING. If you intend to marry, then 1 year is more than enough. If purpose of dating is just dating, then no limit to it ;)

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Dating? Hmm No, it doesnt sit well with me :bummer:. It’s not even only for religious reasons but i also feel its not something which i will say that can help you figure out a person before you decide to marry them :nono:. I think marriage is a gamble and you can’t ever tell for sure how the person is gonna turn out. When you live with them, that is when you wl start to know them and no live in relationships are diff too because they don’t come with the “contract” :). As harsh as it may sound but it is true, having “nikkah” done does make alot of difference.

But yah having said ^ it all, i still would like to talk to a guy atleast once before committing to him and that would be to just cover some important concerns/questions.

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Just my 2 cents.... if "dating" was such a good preventive measure then why there are so many divorces in west??

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talk about jumping on conclusion.. the OP is not even a muslim.. jaan choro :flower2:

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^ Woho! I thought the basic morals were same for every human being irrespective of what religion they belong to.

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and its immoral to date someone.. ? :confused:

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well, yah :bummer:… im sure its no great discovery im sharing with u.

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well.. maya khan for the president then :k:

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^ I never said getting into others personal space is the way to go about it.

Oh well, i m responsible for what i said and not for what you make out of it :).

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Hum tum aik kamray main band hojain aur Maya aajaye. :@:

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Whats with Maya Khan? I know she is a Pakistani host but why are you guys talking about her? Is there anything about her which I don’t know? Well there must be so many of them :konfused: