Re: how long should one fret over an ended relationship?
I have been in some intense relationships that did nto work out, and yeah it was tough for some time, and shadows of it still impacted me in who I became and how I grew and evolved but moving on is key, and moving on means that you just stop piunishing yourself by the what if, why this, wh that, hy not this, why not that type of scenarios.
its over, move on, deal with the pain, deal with the anguish, learn something from it, continue to live your life. I mean the person who walked away, that person is not running at light speed in a vicious circle..they hyave moved on.
why hurt yourself more than the other person hurt you? isnt that the key question here
ting ting ting!!
but i mope over things too -- mostly an ex best friend -- the men I've long forgotten --