Re: how long should one fret over an ended relationship?
it is about a deep disappointment, its built up and a very clever as well as a coward way of running away. such a person can best be wished well and there is no need to look at that expereince as a kind of constantly oozing sore.
because it is not, it's hurt is enough that it bleeds and then becomes a mere memory mark as an attestation of the felt disappointment.
best,
Dushwari