How long does it take to get over somebody?

CE · December 26, 2008, 11:37pm

Pray to Allah swt to help you overcome this. Ask Him for the person He wants you to be with. I know it sounds SOOOO cliche but He will take care of you. Even if its a simple heartfelt dua sitting on the train, He hears it all.

Catty, you may have loved this person but if it isnt meant to be then your true love is still out there.

I once thought I had fallen in love…and I fell so hard I thought my heart would come flying out of my chest. I can honestly say Ive felt my heart ache. I would cry and cry and cry. Every waking thought was about him. It almost killed me because I never understood why things didnt work out.

So, I took some time to reflect and wipe my tears. I got busy with life and family. Then, out of nowhere, when I least expected it…this guy came and literally gave me so much love I didnt know what to do with it. I dont cry anymore…only smile and laugh. Im not insecure and never once think about my past when he is around me. He doesnt let me.

True love doesnt make you cry. The man who truly loves you will fight the world before he sees a tear in your eye. Now I know why things didnt work out.

well said PS and i hope everyone has a Happy ever after just like you…InshAllah