How long did it take you to..

CM · December 23, 2011, 8:52pm

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Depends on the lenght of the relationship, the intimacy (emotional and physical) and the amount invested in it. So it is a wide and differing range.

STA · December 23, 2011, 8:53pm

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RV is super duper

aur sahi nahi to koi aur hi sahi.

Mad_Hatter · December 23, 2011, 8:54pm

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RV is a DUDE, she doesn't do no piddly crying break ups

STA · December 23, 2011, 8:55pm

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isnt she dudette

redvelvet · December 23, 2011, 8:56pm

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Oh STA. :no:

redvelvet · December 23, 2011, 9:01pm

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Aaah...yes, that was the other part of the saying I was trying to remember. Good mantra to live by. "If it ain't you....then let it be someone else. If it ain't someone else...let it be another."

Naabigh · December 23, 2011, 9:03pm

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Kia tah ehad jabh lamhooN mein hum ne
tu sari Umaar effa kyuN karhaiN hum

Enigmatic · December 23, 2011, 9:04pm

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^woh tere naseeb ki barishein kisi aur chat par baras gayi
jo mil gaya usay yaad rakh, jo na mila usay bhool ja

this thread just reminds me of the above sher !

waise just wondering a lot of ppl believe a replacement really helps overcome a breakup. Did it work for anyone?

STA · December 23, 2011, 9:08pm

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replacement always works. i have seen many examples in real life.

Exodus · December 23, 2011, 9:08pm

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Nice try oh immune one to heartbreaks, same goes for whoever claims they’ve never cried over someone else (except family) they liked/loved in their entire lifetime. Come across as Miss. Superman, nobody’s ever gonna take you for real.

Now that i’ve taken the panga. Inbefore I get whipped for going against (a few) women and let my silence do the most talking.

For which, . Already.

Mad_Hatter · December 23, 2011, 9:11pm

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I’ve never broken up with someone. Does that count?

Exodus · December 23, 2011, 9:11pm

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You said something similar about (chugging khait) a post I made in response to ZareenKhan the pathanay khan and regardless of how many irrelevant peace noodles I added, the guy is on my insert to-date.

Personally. Naah it didn’t, made matters worse.

Exodus · December 23, 2011, 9:14pm

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You’re the Hijaabi woman, who could never do no wrong. Need I say more?

Mad_Hatter · December 23, 2011, 9:15pm

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Not really dude.

STA · December 23, 2011, 9:18pm

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then?

Mad_Hatter · December 23, 2011, 9:19pm

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Nothing. I'm just disagreeing that we're all trying to present ourselves as Miss Super(wo)man. None of us are perfect, is all, and we just express things in different ways.

Exodus · December 23, 2011, 9:33pm

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Now you're generalizing, and since I could tell some serious'ness about the reply above. I'll add a bit just to clarify myself (should not necessarily suggest I'd be competing) and trust me on it, I wouldn't mind losing to you or to any woman who comes across as the sane one on this very forum anyway.

RV (I hope she likes being called RV) admitted to have shed a bit of her time over someone/something, even if it accumulates to .5 of a number.

The above however suggested her coming across as super human, which I could bet my HTC on was dubious to say the least, and hence precisely where the disagreement lies.

Mad_Hatter · December 23, 2011, 9:49pm

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Hey man, you also said (in jest I hope!) that I'm a 'hijaaban who could never do wrong', so I was just addressing that really. I never said anything about anyone being superhuman, just that not all women have girly cries and stuff about break-ups.

Exodus · December 23, 2011, 10:42pm

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I did (mistakenly perhaps) read somewhere you were one and hence the perfection personified effect, besides I may have meant (wrong of me) all the hijabi's may come across as the mere examples of perfection, but apparently and obviously thats not the case with anyone. (hijabi, a dupatta on their head one's or none)

Everyone with a little bit of heart (dare I mention, especially a woman) sheds a tear or two once the one they may have genuinely fell for, managed to disappoint them.

Edit: I'm confused if you're hijaabi who's managed to do some wrong or a non hijaabi who's done some wrong. What gibberish Exodus

Mad_Hatter · December 23, 2011, 10:53pm

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Haha, you read right, yes I am a hijabi. But no, not all hijabis are 'perfect'/self-righteous/blah di blah. You know how they say, never judge a book by it's cover, folks.