Re: How long after marriage did you have your 1st child?
Well we kind of wanted kids right away, this was before we started living together.
However after we got married and she moved in with me, we both realized that we just wanted some time to be a couple and to go on vacations and stuff, relax etc..she wanted to focus on finishing her studies etc..
To be honest I don’t want kids for a few more years, it’s she who seems to bring it up sometimes. I’m just so comfortable with our life, plus having a kid is a lot of work and I’m lazy.
I want to get a nice cat though, but she’s kind of allergic to them 