How long after marriage did you have your 1st child?

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Did anyone change their mind from before the marriage to after? For example: Let’s say you always thought you’d have kids 3-4 years after marriage…but once married…you wanted children immediately (or within a few months).

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5 and a half years

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Same hear…5 years…

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It’ll be more than 5 years. :frowning:

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2 months shy of 7 years!

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2 Years. We decided that how we wanted it after we got married. Decision didn’t change

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1 year and half :slight_smile:

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2 years … no timeframe in mind but we did know that we didn’t want kids instantly.

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9 months :blush:

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TOOO early :frowning: got pregnant just 6 months the wedding. :cry: mistake of course, but totatlly in love with our little one now :slight_smile:

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^
:konfused:

:hmmm:

:eek:

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Wow…7 years to 6 months…quite a range! I was very curious about this since this has been on my mind a lot lately.

Rabia: lol…wow! Out of sheer curiosity since this is not something I personally hear about often…did you have to deal with any “drama” due to the timing? Or was everyone happy and too caught up with the baby?

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I wanted to wait for a year or so after marriage for kids but after a month of marriage i really wanted to try for kids, we conceived 9 months after marriage and im due next month inshallah :slight_smile:

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became pregnant one month after wedding. we had both wanted kids right away … though hadn’t expect Allah to grant us that wish quite that quickly. :smiley:
but alhumdullilah … we are grateful and cant imagine it being any other way.

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our wedding was a total arranged, we only met once before getting engaged…We never spoke after that until our nikkah..soooo no discussion about baby,after 6 months of shadii i really wanted to hav kids.I became preg after 8 months of wedding.

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I wanted 2 have kids straight away :slight_smile: but got my first baby after 2 years allhumdullah :slight_smile:

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4 years after marriage.

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A lil over 7 years was when we were blessed.Alhumdullilah for the blessing…:slight_smile:

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after 20days of marriage i found out that i’m 1month pregnant…
it was a surprise as we wanted to conceive after 2yrz of marriage lol
it’ll be 8 or 8.5months of our marriage when our baby will arrive inshaAllah

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:eek: