How life changes...

Salams

I used to have a friend back when we were in high school in Pakistan…

She was a nice girl, very sweet and generous. She was not a good student. They were very rich people. She has cousins in the Pakistan fashion industry and her sister was also a model.

We all knew that her dad used to drink…a lot :-/ Like he was addicted to alcohol :bummer: The whole class knew it. He passed away when we were in late high school, with liver problems…leaving behind her mom (who had gotten married to him when she was 18, she was a model too) and her siblings, they were all sisters.

Her mom was not able to manage her dad’s business, and they were all young. Laalchi rishtaydaars ended up getting ownership of her dad’s business.

The sister became an air hostess I think, and eventually got married to some weirdo kind of guy who had some shady background.

We heard that our friend had come abroad somewhere for studies and was living with rishtaydaars…

Anyways, I lost touch with her after some time, she wasn’t a close friend…

Abhee recently I heard what’s happenned to her…

After she came abroad, her rishtaydaars were not treating her nicely, so she eventually got a part time job and moved out and started supporting herself…
She eventually got married to some black guy :-/
Then he left her and now she is alone, she got laid off, and she is on welfare apparently…

I thought whoaaa how weird, may Allah protect her :flower1: I don’t even know where she is…

its so strange to think how much her life has changed and how tough things must be for her :bummer:

thats just so sad.... i hate hearing about my highschool friends sometimes cus i dont know what half of them are doing with their lives..

the person who told u about her... can he/she help u find her? maybe she needs a good friend like u....

yaar…u know who told me about her…another friend…who met this girl like a year ago just randomly…

she doesn’t even know where she is now, she was in the middle of moving…

she doesnt reply to any emails…and thats all we have, her email add…

its prolly changed…
:-/

danggggggggggg i feel so bad… :bummer: she was such a sweet girl… :bummer:

dont feel bad.. hmm is there anyway u could locate her using the white pages or something??

yaar we r gonna try…us ke cousins waghera se poochein ge…dekho kya hota hae…

thanks :hug:

kewl :) dont stress....

these things cant change... i jsut believe everything happens for a reason and Inshallah at the end we all end up being happy in one way or another... and hopefully she will too..

sometimes we dont know why things happen.. lekin Allah Mian does.. and He knows best right? maybe she'll meet a real nice lad and everything will be ok.... ?

haan u r right yaar.. :-)

i was talking to this friend of mine who is married, aur us ko yahi keh rahi thee k us ko pakistan bulwatay haen aur us kee kisi achay banday se shadi kara dete haen...

yeah i think thats a great idea… :k:

:slight_smile: dekho yaar, ye to idea hae, ab aagay kya hota hae..wo milay to sahi pehle..pakistan anay pe razi ho…arranged marriage kerne pe razi ho..

easier said than done ya know.. :slight_smile:

tum dua karna :slight_smile:

haan karon gi :k:

she must be about 21 haina? ur age?

Inshallah woh tumhe mille tho sahi…

naheen yaar…she’s older than me…i’m turning 22 in 10 days…she must be around 24/25…

thanks yara :hug:

hmmm u could find a really nice guy for her… :slight_smile: Inshallah.. eevn in US

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hmmm u could find a really nice guy for her.... :) Inshallah.. eevn in US
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yaar ye sab mere bas kee baat naheen :D

meri friend married hae wohi paray gi in chakkaron mein :D i can ask my mom too...

lekin, wo milay to sahi aur razi to ho pehle :-)

waisae btw tumhein pata naheen tha kya... i am going back to pakistan na at the end of this month :)

so sad to hear about ur friend irem.. hope everything works out for her Inshallah. :flower1:

its so weird to see lives change infront of u.. heck my life has changed a lot in a way in the past 10 years. :slight_smile: makes me wonder where i will end up in the future.

thanks suroor :slight_smile:

haan yaar meri bhee…i had no idea when i was a kid that i was going to go to amreeka…or that i would study engineering…

or that a lot of the stuff that happenned in my life would happen :slight_smile:

or that i would become addicted to gupshup :hehe:

bas what can a person do but keep gliding along life :smiley: and before we know it hamaray baal bhee sufayd ho jayein ge init :smiley:

khayr wish u best of luck :slight_smile:

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yaar ye sab mere bas kee baat naheen :D

meri friend married hae wohi paray gi in chakkaron mein :D i can ask my mom too...

lekin, wo milay to sahi aur razi to ho pehle :-)

waisae btw tumhein pata naheen tha kya... i am going back to pakistan na at the end of this month :)
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yeah i do yaara :) i mean i know ur going back... im going too in about 3 and a half months :)

thatz life :~)

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yeah i do yaara :) i mean i know ur going back... im going too in about 3 and a half months :)
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tum taxila aur lahore ho gi na?

karachi chakkar laganay ka koi plan hae? come and stay with us in karachi for a few days, karachi bhee ghoom lena :) seriously...

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thatz life :~)
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jee shayad :-}

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*Originally posted by irem: *

tum taxila aur lahore ho gi na?

karachi chakkar laganay ka koi plan hae? come and stay with us in karachi for a few days, karachi bhee ghoom lena :) seriously...

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patha nahin yaara... im gonna be there for less than 4 weeks... and most of the time gujranwala mein hongi.. yan phir lahore (cus some relos are there)... taxila ka abhi patha nahin.... maybe if my dad goes tho we might go there too...

upar se my parents are liek they wanna find a guy...!!!

oye hoye phir to kaafi busy ho gi lag raha hae :D

yaar keep in touch...i'll give u my number in karachi...plan ban sakay to zaroor aana...i'll show u around :) mein bhee veli hi hon gi :D