How is Life after Divorce?

[Deeba1234]

@cosmicBiwi

Mc12T the option of divorce has not been given by him…He says tht he can live this life..Which apparently is not abusive at all…He provides me everything like food home and shelter. he also takes care of my physical needs. But he says tht he wil never be able to give me the same love which we used to have. He said tht he will never support me emotionally and for emotional support i will have to look for my parents. I have asked him to move on and we can start a new life full of love and trust but he says no i cannot trust u again.
Plus he does not want to extend his family with me either. He says one son is enouhg. I mean wht the hell? how can he take my right of becoming mother away from me?
Thts y i was considering seperation. he is not willing to change his attitude for me and my son and for himself also.

If he’s taking care of ur physical needs but says he won’t take care of ur emotional needs that prob means he doesn’t care about u.. of course he is fulfilling ur physical needs, a lot of guys will sleep with/be intimate with girls they couldn’t care less about cos they themselves need to be satisfied sexually.. the fact that he said he won’t have anymore kids with u is also very telling..

I’m not saying u should definitely divorce but ur other half needs to start changing his behaviour and start treating u with respect, not some woman he can have a physical relationship with but with no emotional bond or attachment (what does that remind u of?).. maybe it will happen but maybe it won’t, right now he sounds like an arrogant jerk..