Ok folks!!!
I am not looking for non-serious replies nor personal attacks…and flooders keep out of this forum if u dont have any suggestions. I wanted to know your opinions about having mods create a ***rishta forum ***on GS…a real one. This way we can help people that are looking for rishtas all over the world and guppies I M SERIOUS about this. Finding a rishta is so hard nowadays and I soooooooo want to do something about this problem. I can advertise for this forum:) Mods! can u please take it into consideration after seeing guppies’ response on it??? Suggestions needed. If anyone thinks this will have many drawbacks, he/she can discuss 'em here. Any opinion/suggestion, positive or negative, about this is welcome…just one request everyone, PLEASE seriously reply to this thread, dont make fun of anything discussed or presented here.
Waiting for your response guys.
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Pagli - can I respectfully ask you what age group are you? (teen, 20ish, 30ish etc?)
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good idea pagli, but i dont think anyone is going to find a match here on Gs. Half of the pepz here hide their true identity. Pepz are just gonna have fun with that forum, hardly anyone is going to take it seriously
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mein hoon naaa ,
Don t worry Pagliii
:):)
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try rishta.com, shadionline for rishtas. I agree with Musicmaniac that people here will not take that forum seriously.
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What happened to good old fashioned dating?
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but is should freee toooo ,
I mean no register feees
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I agree, I can think of atleast 10 girls who have ask me to keep an eye out for them.
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this thread is as stupid as the person who wrote it.
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barfeee meraaa patch up karaaa doo naaa ,
I have one year .....will talk to u , if u r serious ...
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I agree with that.
I doubt many people take this place serious. Most of us come here just for a laugh and a rishta forum would be hilarious. A complete laugh riot. Expect a sudden surge of new IDs to pop up if it did ![]()
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why? are you looking:cb:
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pagli wait till i tell your mommy ![]()
Pagli- I strongly hate rishta finding people. They failed at everything in life thats why they think matching people will help. I also feel its another reason to destory women. what do these ladies do? Invite both guy’s and girl’s mothers over and have a Quran Khani. Or have them meet at some sort of an event and discuss each other’s kids. then they would meet up on a stupid tea party and scan the girl. Its another reason for karcha.
Making another thread.. Pagli you honestly think people will take it seriously i dont think so. they will post some sort of a stupid remark here and there. Plus are you willing to trust if another guppy ask you meet him? For what we know that guppy could be a stalker etc…
I came across a lot of guppies some of them are absolutely intelligent people and would love to meet them. I did meet few and they are really nice people and i think we have become friends for lifetime now. But we also have jerks on gupshup too. Some low lives pathetic souls.
i salute mods to keep these threads as clean as possible and tolerate BS of all those pathetic souls. some of these guppies bother me so much that i would not mind personally going to their homes and beat the heck out of them.
sorry pagli i love ya and all but don’t support on this one…
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i know a lot of single girls in their mid to late 20s looking for guys...but not vice versa....sad eh?
it seems to me all these girls i know are canadian born, well educated and what the same thing in a guy....but i think guys can settle for anyone...even someone in a pind in pakistan.....
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I think it’s because of the perception (held by me as well) that a girl from back home in Pakistan can adapt more easily to life in the west than a guy from back home can.
My mother freaked out at one of my aunts who had some trouble finding a rishta in England for her daughter, and started thinking about going back home to find one. My mum made the aunt keep on looking in England until a suitable boy was found.
On the other hand, the only girl my mother considered for my brother was one from back home, who obviously moved from Pakistan to England after marriage.
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Barfee, thanx gal for your sincere reply:)
PrinceMS, i’m 26…why do u ask?
MM, thanx for a serious response…i m glad at least few ppl here are well mannered and they dont make fun like some people here on GS. I kinda knew ppl wont take it serious but i thought may be there r some ppl out there like me who might want to do something to solve this problem ![]()
Ladli, I already saw ppl’s responses here:)
Twinborn, its not for myself…i was trying to help ppl in general.
Grumpy, dating tu tab possible hogi na jab koi kisi ko seriously recommend karay ga ya jaan paye ga k koi available hai (chahay iss thread k through he sahi)
…reason for opening such thread was to see how ppl respond to it and what they are willing to do to solve this rishta problem.
GulabiAnkhein, Shut the f*** up and go back to sleep. Where did ya come from?? I didnt ask for moron’s opinions so u can keep this sort of opinions to yourself. Btw, ppl that assume things about others (like you) are even more stupid and idiot and so my suggestion to u is that keep your mouth shutt and dont bother replying if nothing serious can come out of your mouth. I dont know you but this response tells me you’re a horrible person (and u gave me a reason to assume this about u).
Starsky, mujhay bhi yehi lagta tha k nobody will take it serious but i still wanted to know what ppl have to say on this so i gave it a shot:)
Mutyar, ![]()
Nia, You can tell my mommy, she wont say anything cuz she wont assume stupid things about me…she knows me well:D
Nia, its ok if u dont support me on this…i didnt ask if anyone hates them (rishta ppl) or loves ‘em…i just needed suggestions and wanted to know if someone out there is willing to solve this masla:)
I am not planning on becoming a rishta karanay wali…i know majority of these women’s motive is to get loads of money out of both parties and to gossip around. My aim was to make a platform where everyone can recommend someone they know well for someone else in their friends’ cricle so that at least some (if not all) girls can be married in the right age. Of course, it would involve both parties but we can avoid kharcha on tea parties and lets say (i know u r taken) if i were to recommend someone for you or vice versa, i’ll make sure that person is considerable and mature enough so that things can go smooth even if you guys dont like each other and things dont work out, i’ll make sure that person doesnt stalk u…and i wont recommend a stalker in the first place. If we involve both familes, problems that u are talking about wont arise…possibility is still thare but can be taken care of.
If people like you and i are willing, we can make a difference and these things can be arranged in a peaceful, respectful, free of fazool ikhrajaat and fazool rasoomaat…only iffffffffffffff we try to help seriously. I strongly think there is nothing wrong with this.
I cant believe your statement about ppl that are doing this. Not everyone is like that u know. I dont know how u came up with the conclusion that people that are doing this have failed in everything in life. I am sorry to say this but i m so disappointed in you and cant digest the fact that u actually think like this.
I already knew (as i mentioned above) that ppl wont take it seriously but i only wanted to figure few things…*sometimes *people give u serious suggestions u know.
P.S. i love u too missy…its ok, we can agree/disagree on things
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mad-Sci-
in addition to adapting to the west lifestyle, there are also other reasons. One main reason is finiancial. A girl who marries a guy from Pakistan (educated or not), well that guy is going to come here to live in the west, and it will be hard to find a job and be settled (finding a place, etc). if the guy was already here, there would no problem about having a job, and a place to stay. I dont think the guy would like to live with the girl's parents after shadi...I was in the same boat...my hubby came to canada from pakistan, and it was hard for us to settle and be finanicaly stable.....kinda hard to explain, but i hope you get the jist....
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HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHA
rishta forum
WAHAHAHAhahahaahaaaaaaaaaa ![]()
I’d shoot myself if I ever married someone from GS.
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I'd shoot myself if I ever married someone from GS.
ahem ahem...I hope you haven't spoken too soon :D
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oh what the heck are you talking about?!![]()