How important is language in an ARRANGED marriage?

[inspiron]

Re: How important is language in an ARRANGED marriage?

@stoppit

I don’t think the question is ‘how important is language in an arranged marriage’, rather, ‘how important is language in inspiron’s marriage’. From your threads, it seems the first thing you freak out about when you get an proposal from someone who grew up in Pak is the language issue… it’s obviously quite important to you. I get the feeling that even a desi accent will grate on you (even if the communication is fine), so I think maybe you should stop considering them altogether.

Maybe you are right stoppit. For me things like looks are not important i can look past an unattractive but the ability to communicate is really really important very high up on my list.

I would be more attracted to an ugly public speaker (in english) than a very handsome uncharismatic man.