Re: how important is jahez?
when i got married, we didnt demanded anything, accordingly we married without jahez etc. we as a family didnt have problem including my mum who is very conservative. ...
the only people who has issue with it relatives and family friends. so keep them shut, we said we just got cash even though we never really have a penny from wife side.
it proves how pathetic our society is. instead of encouraging such thing people start making fun of you.