Koi buri baat nahi milna, mainne khud flirting ki hai on GS, mainne to openly ishq laraya tha, phone par batain ki, it was fun, acha time pass hoa, maine kab kaha ....magar tareeka ghalt hai. Success rate dekho online affairs ka to the majority will always have a bad ending, kiyonkay "real online" stuff is not real, insaan ki nature hai apna bura chupana aur acha dikhana, so its wrong way of geting to know someone. Tukkay mai ofcourse sometimes tukka chal jata hai and ishq kamyaab ho jata hai, but we are talking about the majority, and ziyada tar log SIRAF AUR SIRAF CHASKA LETE HAIN. Kitne shadi shuda log hain forums par? Unki beewian Kidar haiN? Ya jo shadi shuda beewiaN , unke khawand kidar haiN? Aisi kya zaroorat par gayi kay wo idhar a kar smilies banaiN aur moj mastiaa karaiN? Jitnay haiN ham sab ko pata hai, aur kon khawand bardasht karay ga kay uski beewi khul-e-aam post karay? Kitne aise couples haiN jaha dono mian beewi khul-e-aam post karte hain? The fact is log chupatay haiN bataiN
but thats not the solution to escape like a gumshuda bakri on forums....with no nisbul-ain, you move with ur society ajkal kay zamanay mai har koi school, college jata hai, ham ab 1942 kay zamanay ki baat nahi kar rahe jaha bara bhai bodyguard ban kar behan ko college kay gate tak chorne jata hai angraizo say bach bach kay. Had hai Kasmaaaaaay
To phir aap ne yeh sab kyon kia? Aap to phir sab se aagay hain is ka matlab hai. You are contradicting yourself, buddy. Just this morning you were telling me "Tum ghalat samajhti ho mujhe" Should I take that as flirting? Or that you were trying to make me talk to you and keep talking to you? I never come here to flirt, but if someone is friendly, you have to be out of your mind to not smile and reply. May be in your little world, all that exists is flirting.
P.S. There are couples who post on GS together. Take shikra and mrs. shikra, Sara516 and Saieen for examples.
*^ because it was a learning process, insaan ghaltioN say seekhta hai, aur jab seekh leta hai to agay bi patana chahiye. Mainne seekha aur ab phir agah kia, I am not saying this to you in any way, aap nay phir muje ghalt samja. Mainne ye sab kuch aap ko nahi likha, mai general baat kar raha tha. Aap ko mainne kahi bi nahi kia kay flirt kia, I respect you for what you are, and I am no one to judge anyone in person, kay flah banda aisa hai and wo flah aisa.
Mainne jo kuch likha in general likha, kay aise hota hai. Aap par kissi tarah bi mainne unglee nahi uthayee.*
^ ASN man, I will be really honest. AAP ab tak learning process main hi ho shayad. You haven't learned a thing! I know nothing was directed at me, but I am talking on behalf of all GS members. AND you are judging everyone lekin phir bhi kehrahe ho, you are in no position to judge anyone?
*^ mai aik overall baat kar raha hooN kay log aise hote haiN, "overall", mai ye nahi keh raha kay is overall mai "tum" ho ya "wo" hai. Mai aik jaiza lay kar baat kar raha hooN, jaise banda apni raye deta hai.
Mai kahooN lahore mai har doosra banda jaib-katra hai anarkali, to ye kehna sahi ho ga kiyoNkay haiN, magar ye kehna ghalt ho ga kay wo doosra banda "rasheed" ya "haneef" hai.
but thats not the solution to escape like a gumshuda bakri on forums....with no nisbul-ain, you move with ur society ajkal kay zamanay mai har koi school, college jata hai, ham ab 1942 kay zamanay ki baat nahi kar rahe jaha bara bhai bodyguard ban kar behan ko college kay gate tak chorne jata hai angraizo say bach bach kay. Had hai Kasmaaaaaay
Yes, but I feel you are missing the point... whilst we'd like to think most Muslim's are moving on with life and the parents of these youngsters are more lenient in this day and age.. fact is, it's not really the case amongst the majority. You are being ignorant.
I appreciate you intelligently have given some of these youngsters the solution but I'm sure they would've implemented it a long while ago if it were possible for them.
I'd suggest you shut up and get on with your own life. Judging ppl on a forum is foolish.
*^ Dear, i dont know why but you are just getting it completely wrong even when I made it so simple to understand. Maybe you are more focused towards hiting back to me than having a constructive discussion where I can put my viewpoint just like you without getting in mud sliding game. You telling me to shutup is showing nothing but your unwillingness to listen and understand my views. If you expect everyone to follow your line than I'm sorry to say you are mistaken big time. I hope you realize that there is no need for individual name calling and insults. Lets get back to main subject and debate taht.
Let me clear what I said, maybe i was typing quick and it might not hv come easier in understanding.
1: post topic was how imp. is GS in your life. Well in my life and most forum members life, their life, career, family, education, love, relationships, friends is far more imp. than anything else including GS. GS is jus a medium to talk with other people of same and diff. thoughts and opinion.
2: I'm not wrong in saying that people who are addicted are really missing a lot in real life. As GS is suppose to be only a small part of your life (unless you are owner of it) and if some general members are giving it too much time than they are taking that much time away from other imp. things and people from life. I love my ppl around me in real life, i love my friends and so on...
If i'm putting lot of time on GS, i'm taking it from someone too, someone who is far more imp. And that is not we realize cos aajkal most ppl forget real relationships, real imp. things of life cos of internet forum and virtual friends and bond on it.
We all like GS for it being a platform where we can put our thoughts and opinion with trust that other people wont be doing personal attacks and that is what makes it popular, and i would like to take this time to thank admin/mods for doing a wonderful job in maintaining the order all the time without bias.
GS is good place cos of its admin/mods dedication, but do not get addicted as you got only 24 hrs in a day and you shud spend it wisely like you spend your money.
This makes much more sense, and I agree that you could do much more with your time than just chat away your time on GS. You could spend this much time with your loved ones, I agree with that too. What about those who do not have such loving people like you do? Some of us are probably college students who actually live in dorms. Instead of going to fret parties, why not discuss things related to you on GS? Then, there are mommies who need some time for themselves once in a while. If they take out an hour or two for them and give about 15 minutes to GS, what’s wrong with that? THEN ,really, there are those, who are just shy and don’t open to others, what about them? GS is not meant for party animals or very outgoing people, that’s why you see similar kind of people here.
And all you batameezo; have some respect for ASN. He’s done A LOT for many members of GS. If you want to disagree with him you are more than welcome to; but do it in a respectful manner!
I am a mysterious poster to the site, my reason of stay here is purely because iv adopted guppy as my new sister since i have none!...yes i am a loner!!!!! :)
MY BIGGEST MISTAKE WAS WHEN I JOIN GS
mera damag khrab tha when i needed some song here (so joined it), n then again mera sahi ka damag khrab tha when i actually decided “Forums n human behaviorz” as my research topic. (n started participating here )
n not only dat i am making others to do the same mistake
I am on GS because I monitor ppls statements and send their quotes and ip addresses to authorities in their cpountries, so they can be put on watch lists. think of it as a side job for pocket change :D
GS to me is very important because I travel a lot to the remote location in the line of my job, I have no time to find new friends in every location I go to. Through GS I keep in touch with the current events and kill time if I am on standby on the job. Once I am back home then suddenly I drop out of the radar because that is my friends and family time.
The other reason is; at GS its friendly and open atmosphere, and I can discuss things openly which can get me killed in real life.
ASN, go do something productive.. you are losing it!
(n started participating here )