Re: How important is attraction to you
Attraction plays a bigger role in the arranged setting and later on personality takes over. However in love marriages you get attracted to the person as you get to know each other, of course you could be attracted to them physically first.
At times I've never thought a guy was very attractive but not bad looking either and ended up getting attracted to them because of their confidence and personality. I then ended up finding them physically attractive at times. It happens! However attraction is key how that happens depends on the circumstances.