Re: How important is attraction to you
So, if the girl is pretty normal looking and not super beautiful, you would not marry her? As you get to know her in person you wouldn’t feel anything that would attract you to her other than only the physical? The way she is with the elderly, her strong relationship with Allah, the way she does the small things to consider your feelings, knows you better than you know yourself after only being around for a short time…I’m just throwing around some examples here.
What if the next girl is completely hot but a total mismatch in terms of subculture, language, getting along with your family and is a total jerk to you…what then?
Men and women cannot be so different in the attraction department.