Re: How important is attraction to you
You can usually tell within a few ‘viewings’ whether you’re physically attracted to someone or not.
Its not a big deal. Really. For instance, I feel physically attracted to atleast half the girls on an average university campus.
Unless you’re extremely shallow and men who meet your criteria of physical attractiveness are a rare breed, physical attraction at ‘first sight’ is not a big deal. It should be a pre-requisite for relationships.