how hard do you need to work for marriage

[Deeba1234]

@nadz123

maybe its all the emotions im feeling with the pregnancy, i find myself crying now for no reason, well actually began when i asked my bro in law whose a dear friend, whether he would expect or insist his wife to wear duppatta, he said no, in fact all men i know dont do that. so it made me cry thinking i had to have the husband who does. its just getting me down. im not enjoying married life the way i thought id be…honeymoon period isnt even over yet and here i am…

Have you ever said an outright ‘no’ or do u go along with it all the time.. am just wondering what his reaction is to the ‘no’? I wouldn’t wear it if future hubby asked even tho my mum covers (not just dupatta, proper hijab), I just wouldn’t feel comfortable..