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So it seems that there are many more desi eligible girls than eligible guys… or, in other words, there are more loser desi guys than loser desi girls.
I wonder what causes this imbalance. 
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Well I guess if mummies keep getting excited over every damn thing their son does and thinks their son is a brilliant arse, then I guess that's what does it. I doubt the practice is dying anytime soon, we see plenty of posters here who think their little sons are gods for doing the same thing any other kid can do.
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Just curious... the cousin's newfound wife: is being pretty her only qualification?
Could it be that she's a pretty gadhi and cousin is a handsome gadha?
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Well I guess if mummies keep getting excited over every damn thing their son does and thinks their son is a brilliant arse, then I guess that's what does it. I doubt the practice is dying anytime soon, we see plenty of posters here who think their little sons are gods for doing the same thing any other kid can do.
Are you sure that's all that makes a guy a 'loser' ?
Or are there certain other traits, the lack of which causes 'loser-dom' in men?... traits that you hate to mention explicitly.
Just say it like it is.
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kakaballi
You're asking the right questions.
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Cant you just go and speak to the girl and ask her what she saw in him? and if not her directly, someone else in the fam will surely know the answer. Does he have lots of money? Does she need a green card? Does he have a big house of his own that she wont have to share with the in laws? Erm and basically what others have said as well that what is it that makes him a looser in your eyes??
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Stereotyping ? "He's not my type ", has worked for me so far and I belong to a conservative family. I think a large portion of our society consults the girl to be married.
Nope they are pressurized and convinced by their parents and relatives most of the times.