How does it work?

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Re: How does it work?

@Hinamajid

My FIL never ever worked in his whole life; He was reliant on rental income only. But when expenses increased, Their 3 Son started working, From the days my husband started working, He was given a responsibility to support and provide financial help at home. He worked day and night to support them in every case.

When he got married, He was given very little financial support from his parents, Mash Allah we both are settle here in Middle East. He has a really got job. We have been married from last 1 year now and I don’t remember any month when we haven’t sent money back home. My MIL expired 4 months back Still there is 30% of his salary which goes every month to his family where his 2 married brothers families and FIL enjoy. What actually disturbs me is lack of accountabilities; it’s not his duty to fulfill needs of his married bothers and children’s. I have never ever heard single appreciations from none of them. He sent money every 3 of each month. In case it gets delayed for 3 or 4 days. FIL Calls asking if he is sending money or not.

Since I am working too. My husband is taking care of entire house expenses including Rents, Bill, grocery, Car, Petrol, Etc. My salary is saved. He does not save anything. Whatever he does is spent them.

Paying for other siblings and their families is not right unless one is earning a huge amount. This is what I think.