A question similar to some asked… the classic “but she’s a good friend” case…
If you are a female and friends with a guy and the guy proposes. Now, you do like the guy a lot as a friend, but not in ‘that’ romantic sense, and so you do turn him down.
Does that effect your friendship? In what way?
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Yes it does effect your friendship.....you will end up ruining your friendship...(in most cases) you will loose your friend.
Best solution: Don't ever fall in love with your friend !
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LOL once upon a time same thing happened to me. Long time ago but I fell in love with my friend and the worst things possible that could have happened, happened. He already liked me 
Later things did not work out:chai:
Falling in love with friends is a big no no. Be it online or in real life.
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One thing i will never do and that is “Falling in love with my friends” no matter what, i will avoid this at all cost 
Simply becuase i do not want to ruin my friendship, i have few very good good female friends last thing i want is them falling in love with me or me falling in love wih them ! Big no no :nono:.
If i love someone i will just say it to her, whether she accpets me or not it’s upto her, but i will never ask her to be my friend !
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for all types of questions this is the only answer…
LOVE’S GAME OVER
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Once you do propose it totally changes the friendship that existed as now you see them in a different light. I personally think it is better to keep it distinct- friends and your other half. Friendship can be a good basis for love and a long term relationship, but if it does not work, and you have mutual friends as well, it could mean you lose many friendships in the long run.
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Oh well u cant stop someone(or yrself) frm fallin in love wit a friend..as u dont really choose whom to love..all u realise is tht it has happened..same thing happened to me..but i kept it to myself as i cud have lost him as a friend..my friend was not the type who'd go for it..after a year or so he proposed but i turned him down coz of som majburi..and well nothin was the same ever:(..we've always been fightin since then..stopped talkin completely..then friends again fight friends and it's been like this till today..we both love each other though:(..
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Um it doesn't work out unless both friends feel the same way
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I agree with dildirani...:)
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i agree with aishaa up to a certain extent..it might not work out even if both feel the same way...as in my case
Luv Jus Happenz 
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I agree with all above posts.
If you let your friend know you love her/him - things change a lot.
If things don't work out - then you will NEVER GET TO SEE / MEET this "friend" ever again.
You will never be able to call him/her casually like a friend. It's over :(
I agree with all above posts.
If you let your friend know you love her/him - things change a lot.
If things don't work out - then you will NEVER GET TO SEE / MEET this "friend" ever again.
You will never be able to call him/her casually like a friend. It's over :(
Good summary and yeah, agreed.
Women are more oblivious to these kinds of situations - the guy clearly likes the girl more than a friend and she'd be like huhhhhhh, ewwwwwwwwwww, he's just a friend. So I guess men, be careful when you voice out your desires. Evaluate the situation reasonably.
haaaaye haaye! kia din yaad kerva diye meri dukhti rug pe hath daal diya apne
balli kaka
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soooo... its better regretting later than speaking your heart out (if you are not sure about feelings from the other side) ?
ab speaknay ko reh hi kia gia hai? dusri taraf k halat bhi pata tu hain hi lekin ye zaalim samaj…
Watching too many b’wood movies eh? 
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It happend to me just a few days ago. a really good friend of mine told me how he felt bout me. since i'm not interested i told him so. friendship has changed in a bit. i dont call him now unless it's for sth. i dont feel right calling him just to chat so i don't. n everytime i think bout him i just remember tat he doesnt think of me as a friend. yeah i kinda wish he hadn't told me.
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