Well, when you put it like that, it’s hard even for ME to digest. I’d hate to be in a situation where I am continually being wronged, and the person wronging me, nor the person who is supposed to be my other half, are willing to stand up for me. And I am just expected to happily accept it? I can see where she’s coming from - I’d be going mental too trying to fight for my rights.
But nadz - don’t drive yourself insane. You have to look after yourself, as these are the cards you’ve been dealt. Learn to ignore. It’s not easy. But it’s necessary.