Re: how does a husband defend.his wife
BEFORE the nikah, you knew that you would have to move to Pakistan & live with his parents, and you also knew before nikah that his mother didn’t like you. After several years of marriage and 2 kids, MIL still doesn’t like you, you husband has refused to move out, and you already know that he will not speak against his mother. Whether or not your MIL is wrong doesn’t really matter. This is how things will be run in HER house.
So if you want to continue being married to him and continue to live in your MIL’s house….this is how things will be for the rest of your life. Why is that difficult for you to digest?