how does a guy or CAN prove to a girl that he’s interested in her for her character, and not physical beauty??
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By sending a PM on a bulletin board, appreciating her simply for the thoughts expressed through her posts...:p
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are you the same lajjoo...
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^^ Do you doubt the authenticity of the post Barbie?
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well i was not expecting this kinda reply from you lajjo.....
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OK...Different reply:
Genuineness cannot be hidden...Praise and flattery can be easily distinguished if one takes time to think about it...
Some people fall flat for flattery and some people doubt genuine praise as flattery...Quite tricky actually...
But there is hope:
If the guy indulges in good conversation with a girl, he appreciates her character...
If the guy is edgy and trying to be romantically inclined, he likes her for her beauty...
Now, don't tell me Lajjo never gives you detailed answers...:D
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oh no lajjooo....that was really cool...... and i really admire you for your posts........and i am being genuine here
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By the way he talks to u and talks about u to other ppl...if he's just interested in ur beauty then he'll just wana show u off, always taking u places etc...but if he loves U, the person inside, it will show on his face.
When some1 mentions u his face will lite up...
The things he does for u...if he's there for u when ur going thru tough times, the way he consoles u, does it seem genuine or like he's putting on a show?...
He'll stand up for u....& the way he treats u in front of his friends...
U'll agree on different topics, issues going on in the world maybe...tells his friends/family all the good things u do...
Basically, the same things u wud think to do, to show him that u love his character...
There are so many ways to tell...also the more time u spend together, i think u can just tell...it's different for every couple, usually u just get "that feeling"...if u can tell who is after u just for ur beauty, then u can usually also tell who really enjoys ur company and likes u for who u r on the inside...but i think u need to have both...u need to be with each other cos ur attracted to each other & cos u love each other's personality/character....they go hand in hand :)
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If someone is original then they don't have to show/proof anything to you. Actions speak for themselves.
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yeah a guy who takes you out even when you are looking horrible........ who introduces you to his friends and says " thats her".......... a spontaneous guy who kisses your forehead.... a simple funny guy whose eyes speak more than his lips........
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Thank you Barbie…
And you change everything I wrote about Barbie girls…
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i dont even remeber lajjo..... i remeber only the nice stuff....... no grudges....
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is the girl really fat? or ugly?
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^^ the question is does she put out
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so lajjo and barbie are being pretty appreciative of each other. Let the games begin....
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Barbie Girl...do you actually want a guy that only likes you for your character?...
Im sure you would want a guy to be physically attracted to you too?...
Its like for me friends who are girls are those whose characters i like but physically i dont like...
And girls i click with tend to be girls im attracted to whom i also get on really well with...
Isnt having a combination of both what everyone wants?...
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Seriously.... it's not shallow if you think looks are important. Yes, character, personality, all those things are VERY important and they are the qualities that keep one interested, but there's nothing wrong with being physically attractive and appreciating someone else's good looks as well. But it is kinda crushing when someone likes only brains (they think ur ugly) or only looks (coz ur slutty) :(
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I agree with you...my friend is with his girl for two months...he says he really likes her as a person...but he admits to me that he doesnt find her attractive...(this isnt the timepass guy...he never liked the gal)...hes staying with her for now cos he likes her...but for me thats just a friendship...lol there is a kali at his work that wants to sleep with him and hes getting all tempted...he wouldnt be so tempted if he found his girl physically attractive...
Looks arent everything...but physical attraction and emotional attraction are what makes a girl someone you want as a girlfriend...doesnt make you shallow at all...
If you like girls cos they are only good looking then you are shallow...if you get with a girl only cos of her character you are selling yourself short...
The best situation is a combination of both which unfortuantely is hard to find but when you do its jackpot...
If any girl can tell me they are hapy with their boyfriend of husband believing they are not attarctive or sexy they are lying...every human being wants to feel sexy to their partner...