How do you..

Lifestyle Relationships
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deal with an ex-bf/gf who keeps contacting you despite you telling them you’ve moved on and don’t want them back in your life?

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Responding to you ex when he/she contacts you is like telling them that you're "okay" with them entering your life. So, don't respond to the emails. Don't receive or return the calls. Don't meet them. Implement "no contact"...and stick to it. They'll get the message and move on eventually.

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Invite them on your wedding, ask for a great gift.

Better yet...ask him or her to sing a filmi song at your wedding.

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Change your phone number , or just block him / her .

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Tell your dad.
Change your phone number.
Tell his/her dad.

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Change your contact number .....easy & harmless solution .

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You are not obligated to return their calls or respond to any anything. Your job is done.

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Tell him/her that you are going to Afghanistan and ask him her to join you.

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Change your phone number
Tell her parents
Stop responding to her...period

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I dont have any such experience as I myself is the one who keeps on contacting my ex despite her telling me that she has moved on and don’t want me back in her life

This thread will really go a long way for me to preempt her moves :k: :smiley:

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Awesome idea… :e6:

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you guys need to take at least some thread seriously.......
better you do it yourself before I send mods after you.

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Best way is a mental block. You have to convince yourself that they are not worthy of entering your life again. Usually people break up because things are not working out, there are trust issues or something like that. Sometimes people break your heart and hurt your feelings. You should mentally condition yourself and think that a person who has done all that does not deserve to hurt you again. We are the ones who give people the chance to hurt us. Once you are mentally ready, you yourself will know what is the right thing to do. For example, blocking his/her number, changing your number, ignoring their emails etc. It takes strong will and determination but you can do it and just move on and ignore.

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Agree with the advice above. If they have them on Facebook then block them. Block their e-mail address on your e-mail account. Do not respond to their text message. Don't answer the phone if they call. Do NOT return their phone calls.

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Just ignore them.

Failing that tell your dad as Niksik said, unless your dad didn't know you were dating?

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Never been contacted by my ex so far. And don't want to, it will open up old wounds. And if she did, then it won't be decent on her part after what she has done.

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**I have experience from the 'telling dad' thing and well...things turned pretty nasty...

So I'd advise you not to.**

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Thats a bit rude.

Maybe they just miss you and want to remain friends.

And someone else said its takes strong will and determination to ignore them. whys this?

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Take a gun and shoot yourself.

Waisay its kinda pity for the person who moved on running over someone else. Dispite the feelings, that "love" that careing his ex-gf or bf have given to him or her.

I personally wouldnt even bother giving you any sort of advice.

but sure, what the hell..since this simple logic wont get through your thick head.

pickup their phone and tell them that its over...and hangup.

They wont call back again.

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Sometimes ex bfs or even ex gfs are like mental. Stalker people. They won't just end it like that. Its not so easy, or even text book based, one answer does not apply for all kinds of ex bfs/gfs. It depends on the person! If they get the hint or not.