Hi Sweetoes.
Ive a question.
How do you think about to have a bf or a gf?
Do you think it is wrong to have a bf/gf or
it’s ok as long you don’t do wrong things?
I ask this question coz many Paki says it’s
wrong to have a bf/gf and i talking more
about elder pplz they say that.
But how do you think about it?
Tell me.
Nilu((Anila))
wrong but then just my opinion .... :p
In my opinon WRONG
I think one should not have secret relationships. It should be out in the open, and handled accordingly.
Re: HOw do you think about have a Gf or a BF? Is it wrong or it's Ok?
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hi Sweetoes.
Ive a question.
How do you think about to have a bf or a gf?
Do you think it is wrong to have a bf/gf or
it's ok as long you don't do wrong things?
I ask this question coz many Paki says it's
wrong to have a bf/gf and i talking more
about elder pplz they say that.
But how do you think about it?
Tell me.
Nilu((Anila))
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Well Nilu most Pakistani are muslims and Islam doesn't allow dating so I guess that's why many people consider it wrong coz it goes against the prinicples of our religion.
In my opinion, it's wrong :)
hai Allah she ..she said bf n gf 
haraaaaaaaam!! 
Re: HOw do you think about have a Gf or a BF? Is it wrong or it's Ok?
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Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hi Sweetoes.
Ive a question.
How do you think about to have a bf or a gf?
**wrong*
Do you think it is wrong to have a bf/gf or
wrong
it's ok as long you don't do wrong things?
no
I ask this question coz many Paki says it's
wrong to have a bf/gf and i talking more
about elder pplz they say that.
But how do you think about it?
very very wrong
Tell me.
Allah sab ko hidayat de
Nilu((Anila))
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It depends on how religious you are.
I see nothing wrong in it. Though a topic for religion, but humor me. Show where "Dating" is shown as haram. Not premartial sex. Btw dont give be the mehram and non-mehram bull****. If that were the cause, a majority break the rule by talking to your male or female friends or classmates.
ahh waste of time, couple years of relationship, ull start to get sick of other person, stay single, enjoy life :)
taboo ..
many will say its wrong but still do it..
haha 
well said buddy :k:
Exerpt taken from: People Inc. - America's Largest Digital & Print Publisher
First off all, as you already realise the relationship between a man and a woman who are non mehram to each other is not allowed in Islam.
A friendship wth the opposite sex is not of Islam. It used to be of the Jahiliyyah (pre-Islamic era) style of life. A friendship of the two sexes can never be safe or sex-free. I agree that in some exceptional cases, it could be innocent. But, a law is usually amended for social regulations. There is no law to be customized for a certain person or few people.
The Qur’an and Sunnah guidance for the sexes dealing with each other has a main major issue for which Islam has set principles and rules to govern. It is the desire and lust. The Qur’an prohibits anything that motivates one’s heart in a seductive way towards the other. The Qur’an tells a woman when she speaks to a man to speak in a way that doesn’t show any interest in him lest he should feel seduced to build up an unhealthy relationship. If there is a possibility in any kind of action that it could lead by some percentage into catastrophe, no one will ever take that risk.
There is a difference between love and romance. Romance, if not checked, may mean wasting time, effort and dignity. Islam teaches us to be truthful and realistic. Besides, the concept of love in Islam is very unique, when a Muslim loves something or somebody, it must be for the sake of Allah; the same applies to hatred. Islam teaches us that marriage is the finest, purest and permissible relationship that should exist between a male and female; it should be the goal that they both have in mind.
There is no concept of courtship in Islam as it is practiced in the West. There is no dating or living in de facto relationship or trying each other out before committing to each other. There is to be no physical relationship whatsoever before marriage. In most cases, romance and love die out very quickly when couple find themselves with the real world. The unrealistic expectation that young people have is what often contributes to the failure of their relationship.
Love blinds people to the extent of overlooking potential problems in the relationship. There is an Arabic proverb that says: “Love is blind, it makes zucchini turn into okra”. Arranged marriages, on the other hand, are based not on physical attraction or romantic notions, but rather on critical evaluation of the compatibility of the couple. That is why such marriage often proves successful.
From an Islamic perspective, in choosing a partner, the most important factor that should be taken into consideration is Taqwa (piety and consciousness of Allah). The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, recommended the suitors to see each other before going through with marriage procedures. That is very important because it is unreasonable for two people to be thrown into marriage and be expected to have a successful marital life, full of love and affection, when they know nothing of each other. The couple are permitted to look at each other.
This ruling does not contradict the Qur’anic verse that says, “…believing men and women should lower their gaze” (An-Nur: 30).
The couple, however, are not permitted to be alone in a closed room or go out together alone. As the Hadith says: “When a man and a woman are together alone, the Shaytan (Satan) makes their third.”
Though love is something nice, and it is recommended for a man to marry a woman whom he loves, because the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said: “There is nothing better for two who love each other than marriage.” (Sahih Al-Jami’, 5200) However, this love should not be overwhelming and cause a person to forget other characteristics which he should look for in the person he wants to marry. The most important characteristic is religious commitment. The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, says: “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty and her commitment to religion. Choose the one who is religious, may your hands be rubbed with dust *!” (Agreed-upon Hadith).
It is normal for any woman to get attracted or have feelings for a certain man (and vice versa), but we have to teach ourselves how to deal with these feelings and restrict them to our hearts till it’s the righteous situation of engagement and marriage.*
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*Originally posted by larki: *
"When a man and a woman are together alone, the Shaytan (Satan) makes their third."
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So there is always a possibility for a threesome.
But question is is Shaitan Male or Female..
will it be WWM or MMW. 
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Originally posted by CM: *
I see nothing wrong in it. Though a topic for religion, but humor me. Show where "Dating" is shown as haram. Not premartial sex. Btw dont give be the mehram and non-mehram bull***. If that were the cause, a majority break the rule by talking to your male or female friends or classmates.
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You are right on the first part, dating itself is not wrong (I wont use the word haraam here at all), but what dating leads to is wrong in Islam, but you have alreay stated that.
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hehehee
Re: HOw do you think about have a Gf or a BF? Is it wrong or it's Ok?
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*Originally posted by Nilu: *
Hi Sweetoes.
Ive a question.
How do you think about to have a bf or a gf?
Do you think it is wrong to have a bf/gf or
it's ok as long you don't do wrong things?
I ask this question coz many Paki says it's
wrong to have a bf/gf and i talking more
about elder pplz they say that.
But how do you think about it?
Tell me.
Nilu((Anila))
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well in our religion, Dating is not allowed, but so are forced marriages, Hazrat Khadija proposed Hazrat Mohammad(PBUH) on the liking basis, they didn't go out dating for one month or two and then got married. so there r some flexibilities, but one shouldn't bend the religion to justify their actions. :)
its ok in islam to show your interest in a person or like them when its the subject of marriage.
but dating, premaritial sex, one night stands, or anything along those lines is not allowed, it is considered haram in Islam.
Never Mind.
WRONG to be presiced
gf or bf they do turn serious as understanding develops w/c is quite natural thus leading to many problems