Re: How do you know if he’s the one?
how can you say that ? what is your measurements of compatibility ?
If a girl is marrying someone just because her parents wants to do so, don’t you think the girl will change every single part of her personality so that she is compatible with the guy she is married to ? To keep marriage alive and keep her parents respect and happines ? (girl = brown girl)
One of my bhabhi, I asked her that i have never seen you objecting or putting your suggestions whenever me and your husbands have an argument and she says, whatever they say is right, I have changed my personlity to meet his so that we have happy life … DO YOU THINK THIS IS COMPATIBILITY ? And she wasn’t any girl, she was a master graduate from one of the best university in Pakistan.
This is the sole reason I hate arrange marraige, because you are stuck with a person and ultimately fall in love and personality matches not because it was so before marriage but because you guys are forced by celebrating it openly that we are tying two people together and from 2 years now they will hav ebest compatibility and love.
I HATE this part about arranged marriage too. In fact, about marriage in general. You have to pretend like a naik parveen, and you have to smile all the time, and you can never speak your mind.