Often, we make fun of men who complain about being "chased" by women...but in my opinion it's not rite, and i guess it's a double standard that we only sympathise with women in these scenarios. 1) men can be sexually assaulted...2) i came quite close to being assaulted myself when i was younger...i wud say i did NOT do wot i shud have in that situation...but as i have matured, i realise i was just young and afraid...that time in my life still haunts me sometimes, so that's all i'm gona say.
I think the best thing to do is to tell someone...sometimes it can start with harmless flirting...and sometimes it's harrassment...but it's when someone crosses that line, that makes U feel uncomfortable, that it's wrong. Be firm and clear in ur intent and don't let that person (guy or girl) take advantage of u...that's the only advice i can think of.
true cause the society excpect men to be stronger and have the power to defend themself!
when i was young and stupid i was convinced by tableeghi jamatee ppl to go on some tour with them. on that tour this one guy had the nerve to tell us in a mosque that he once was doing tableegh in amreeeka and went to do tableegh in a place where women were taking their clothes off and were coming on to him... obvious ref to a strip joint. thanks to this guy by the time he was done they were so impressed by his non arousal... the gals all converted by the time he was done.
u should have done the same molana. thats how we do it.
some women are stupid enough to think all guys can be atracted to them anytime…
men are not beast they have brain too:rolleyes:…and their will can be against sex sometimes…
sal35, u r trying to play the fav male fantasy, prolly you dun get enough attention in real life, anyway rape or sexaul assult is a very serious issue, and the people who really have had to deal with it have a life time of scars to heal.
parisnoor, thank u. men do have brains... now can u convince pcg of that? i can understand gals in a strip joint being attracted to all men they get good money for that. but outside of that.. in real life not all guys are attracted to gals just cuz they got a vagina and vice versa. anyhow what i really meant to say was the molvi guy had a made-up story just like our buddy sal35.
Often, we make fun of men who complain about being "chased" by women...but in my opinion it's not rite, and i guess it's a double standard that we only sympathise with women in these scenarios. 1) men can be sexually assaulted...2) i came quite close to being assaulted myself when i was younger...i wud say i did NOT do wot i shud have in that situation...but as i have matured, i realise i was just young and afraid...that time in my life still haunts me sometimes, so that's all i'm gona say.
** I think the best thing to do is to tell someone...sometimes it can start with harmless flirting...and sometimes it's harrassment...but it's when someone crosses that line, that makes U feel uncomfortable, that it's wrong. Be firm and clear in ur intent and don't let that person (guy or girl) take advantage of u...that's the only advice i can think of**.
right! but even for a guy its very hard to speak about such incident even if its repetitive.
