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Mama, I take exception to the above, I sure hope you meant that my statement reminded you of that desi clown, not me personally…
So you were actually in her???
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Mr aa, no you personally did not remind me of it...the statement in your post did - because you understand that things are so different here that they can often be mis-construed....that reminded me of the desi haircut. anyway, so no worries....
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whew, thanks mama, I was worried there for a second, thinking that I'm giving out some kind of "she smiled at me so she wants me" vibe...
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What's the worst that could happen to you..when rape is inevitable, just relax and enjoy.
I remember several years ago when I first discovered GS - ages and ages back, I think I was too young to join at the time and everythin g :-p - there was a thread that stood out in my mind - in that thread a guy made a similar comment as yours above. Perhaps it was his signiture - he was crucified for it.
Its interesting how thinking and the demographic of GS (or any society) changes to a degree where things fall in and out of taboo.
Just a thought. As for assult. Right.
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, i dont believe it, u just stood there and didn’t even say anything. U know that is where u went wrong. If u thought u were being assualted (which i totally agree u were), u should have raised ur voice. That was just so typical paki of u.
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…dude ur whack…haha no it isn’t u bein sexually assulted it u supposedly bein cough cough …good lookin…it’s just ppl flirtin wit u : )
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I was caught by utter surprise and didn’t understand what to do. But I am sure, if I would have raised my voice then she would have claimed that I assaulted her and then the crowd would have believed her and I would have been beaten. This is a typical Indian mentality. They would never believe that a guy could be assaulted. If, suppose the crowd believed me, I would have become a laughing object. Remaining silent and getting out of the way was probably the best approach I took.
This is a real life situation I faced. If people don’t want to believe me then let them not. I have presented this case here, to understand the normal human pyschology in sucha a situation.
Thanks guys and girlz. I have learnt a lot of different and diverse viewpoints. I am getting nostalgic for some reason, so I wouldn’t continue further.
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most men would fall over each other to be in your situationl, sally boy
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This is a real life situation I faced. If people don't want to believe me then let them not. I have presented this case here, to understand the normal human pyschology in sucha a situation.
Thanks guys and girlz. I have learnt a lot of different and diverse viewpoints. I am getting nostalgic for some reason, so I wouldn't continue further.
dont u have security camera's at ur office or where ever it happened?
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hahahahaha! I'd have to agree with dope - that was dismal.
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Susan smith, the mother from north calrolina, who had killed her own kids, also initially blamed a black guy to make the story more believable, and so did the run-away bride for her disappearance. Black people in american society are what Indians in ours, especially dark indian women. So, when you craft a story where you stigmatize the dark indian woman as vile skank, you know novice pakis will lap it up. But the wheels came off of your BS story with the white women staring at you for hours bit.
All in all, i give you a C+. You can significantly improve your grade, if you provide us with a glimpse of your radiant beauty by positng at least three of your pics on Image 2.
I neither need your grade nor your certificates of beauty. Keep these certificates in your pocket.
Thinking....
Okay
Anyway,I too never believed myself to be good looking but some people around me felt that I was. There are plenty of guys in this forum who have far better look than me. By the way, you can visit my profile and click a link to see my picture. I am pretty sure you will give me a big zero
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But one day I was completely surprised when a girl caught me and wanted to have sex with me. She was cute, but dark, I wasn't interested, but I made no attempt to get rid of her. When she realized, I wasn't willing, she eventually let me go.
Don't pay any attention to the critics. Provide us a play-by-play commentary with the accompanying dialogue.
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Hey I wanna have a glance too. Post Fayz's picture. Come on shabaash.
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Haha, a girl 'assualting' him sexually and you think he'd stop her? If he did, who was gonna have the 'fun'?
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I don't find this topic funny, and i don't know y u all r laffing...ok, even if he made up the stuff about himself or wotver...the topic, and his question about it is a valid one.
Often, we make fun of men who complain about being "chased" by women...but in my opinion it's not rite, and i guess it's a double standard that we only sympathise with women in these scenarios. 1) men can be sexually assaulted...2) i came quite close to being assaulted myself when i was younger...i wud say i did NOT do wot i shud have in that situation...but as i have matured, i realise i was just young and afraid...that time in my life still haunts me sometimes, so that's all i'm gona say.
I think the best thing to do is to tell someone...sometimes it can start with harmless flirting...and sometimes it's harrassment...but it's when someone crosses that line, that makes U feel uncomfortable, that it's wrong. Be firm and clear in ur intent and don't let that person (guy or girl) take advantage of u...that's the only advice i can think of.
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But one day I was completely surprised when a girl caught me and wanted to have sex with me. She was cute, but dark, I wasn't interested, but I made no attempt to get rid of her. When she realized, I wasn't willing, she eventually let me go.
Here, too, I had incidences when I found pretty white woman staring at me and smiling for almost an hour in a restaurant. I just couldn't make eye contact with her. This is all because of my conservative background.
If you are in such a situation how would you handle it? If you have come across such a situation then share your experiences as well.
Can't figure out which sex r u?
Do guys want to have sex with u or gals or both?