How do you handle sexual assault?

parissenoor · January 11, 2006, 9:08pm

Re: How do you handle sexual assault?

KashmiriRainDrops:

I don't find this topic funny, and i don't know y u all r laffing...ok, even if he made up the stuff about himself or wotver...the topic, and his question about it is a valid one.

Often, we make fun of men who complain about being "chased" by women...but in my opinion it's not rite, and i guess it's a double standard that we only sympathise with women in these scenarios. 1) men can be sexually assaulted...2) i came quite close to being assaulted myself when i was younger...i wud say i did NOT do wot i shud have in that situation...but as i have matured, i realise i was just young and afraid...that time in my life still haunts me sometimes, so that's all i'm gona say.

I think the best thing to do is to tell someone...sometimes it can start with harmless flirting...and sometimes it's harrassment...but it's when someone crosses that line, that makes U feel uncomfortable, that it's wrong. Be firm and clear in ur intent and don't let that person (guy or girl) take advantage of u...that's the only advice i can think of.

true cause the society excpect men to be stronger and have the power to defend themself!