How do you go about managing daughters' interaction with Uncles etc

[Deeba1234]

Re: How do you go about managing daughters’ interaction with Uncles etc

@Monk

Creating a distance. Intentionally.
Aunt did it following islamic rules. West does it for other reasons.

Point was:
Aunt(a women) being able to be bold enough to put rules and even bolder to address such difficult thing. Which no one wants to think about.

You don’t follow the rules because of awkward feeling… some you follow them because you trust them… so awkward feeling never arise.

I really don’t think this sort of thing comes from Islam.. Am pretty sure it’s cultural because other Muslims (for ex what Sara mentioned) don’t think in that way about immediate family.. In Islam there isn’t the concept of needing to wear a dupatta or cover your arms and legs (I don’t mean show everything obviously) in front of fathers and brothers.. If a girl chooses to though that’s fair enough..

If I thought there was a risk of something happening I wouldn’t have my husband or son under the same roof as myself let alone any female kids.. In that case I believe the problem would lie with the male rather than the female and that they need psychiatric help..

(Yes, I’m serious about the last bit)