Wow....am I the only one that can see what Mamaof3 is talking about?
Seeing a man treated like a child is such a huge turn-off. I would have images of his mother feeding him mouthfuls and combing his hair at the worst possible (i.e. times of intimacy) times. This could take a huge toll on our relationship.
ya but is it fair to dictate the level of affection between them just so you (general you) feel comfortable with it and not find it a sexual turn-off? isn't it seen as a bit controlling on the wife's part?