^ Ok. But do you realise you are making a big deal out of such a small issue. I just read your other posts where you said how you husband n even yr inlaws are very loving towards you. That's great MasAllah. Nobody can have a perfect life whether married or not and there are small issues one needs to ignore or let go of. In your case, i absolutely dont think its even an issue if yr hubby and his family are very lovey dovey. Believe me, I myself am very private person n find it hard to express my luv or take it when somebody does it openly. However, i would never want my husband or inlaws to change their way of expressing luv for me. Why yar?
As far as driving is concerned, you talk 2 them let them know how important it is not only for him but yourself to know driving since you live in a country where you guys wont be affording a driver and you can anytime need 2 drive somewhere so you shud know driving. Its as simple as that. Where there is a stake like that you talk to them but dont feel euww at their expression of luv. be happy for them...they r different than you but the bottom line is they r loving and dats what you shud be proud of.
I am sorry if i was lil too mean in my earlier post but its just that what i m seeing nowadays is really angering me. I am a girl myself and mind you very private kind of a person. But i know when i get married i wl have 2 change myself and be open 2 adapt to a diff way of life if need be. And i always pray to God that never give me that strength or rather evilness where i even think of breaking another family for my silly wants or desires.
Hope you understand.