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^yea why ppl think if someones is seeking for some good advice hes backbiting.in backbiting u go to everyone u know n destroy someones repu by emphasizing on their faults only.while asking others for advice is to solve a prob n see others prospective too.without telling whole situation u cannot ask for others opinion.
now for those who say SIL is bad n stay away from her i think differently.SIL is ur way to find out wats being said behind ur back.coz sometimes u never know n u become a victim of rumor esp when u live so far away u still get a bad name within extended family. i always find having some spy in family beneficial as they keep telling u wat happening at ur back.this way u r informed n know how to act accordingly. ignorance is not always a blessing.