Also,
PSquared and Redvelvet.. u guys give really good advice..
lekin i just wanna say
in doing so.... dont put in comments like "monstorous MIL" or "ur mother in law cane be the same as ur mother" :)
sorry guys..
but i just dont agree with such type of words being used... if someone is having issues with someone... rather than fueling it more (and i know u guys dont, but these words can be taken literally)... we need to be calming the situation.
For all we know, the MIL doesnt even say anything and its the others around her trying to stir things up....
I just added the monstrous MIL alliteration for humor, lol. The MAJORITY of my advice emphasizes tolerance and respect. I think **Bubli **will understand from the BULK of my post that I do not have the intention to fuel her negative feelings and nor am I encouraging her to act upon them. She's a smart girl, and although she's upset.......she'll understand that most everyone is advising her to stay calm and act with prudence. :)