Re: how do you deal with...
bulbuli,
i agree what ur MIL is doing is not nice... its never nice to talk about people.... but having said that, it's not very wise of ur dewrani or other members of the family telling you what she says
they should try to keep peace... maybe they should not listen to what she says, or even tell her they dont want to be a part of the mocking and end it there... if they are ur friends and want to be kind to you, then they should not spread what ur MIL says...
really, its that simple.
and when they tell u stuff, u tell them, cus u havent heard anything urself, then u dont know whether to believe it or not. Dont let them stir u up either.