How do you deal with this then?*kanjoosi*

Lifestyle Relationships
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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

TIT FOR TAT .. next time you make a face, when he is buying expensive things for his family and offer him the 5 pound cheap item instead or better go to the one pound store for their things.

ps YES I AM SERIOUS

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

yeah :D

i dont know why desis are usually in a rush to get their daughters married off....they should let them mature properly

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

Husband deserves sympathies. I really hope he has access to some real friends or a nice discussion board.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

why does it have to be "mine" and "yours"....why cant it just be "ours" considering you're married.....this "mine" and "yours" is what causes problems.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

How do you deal with this "kanjoosi" then?

You show him some "kanjoosi" of your own in the bedroom. A few encounters with such kanjoosi might result in a more ....accomodating wallet on his part.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

Sorry to say but most pathetic advise I guess!

Take my words, NEVER try to blackmail man with sex. (same goes other way round) :nono:

All these matters should be handled in proper way like an Adult should i.e by conversation. If this is the solution you want to apply to this (or any other) problem, then God be with you and your relationship.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

^ Yeah, I hope RV was just joking. Doesn't sound like her.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

Cut me some slack. Of course it was a joke.

:rolleyes:

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

Welcome to married life :p
Learn to live with it .... don't go shopping with him and don't buy anything in front of him..... you'll learn slowly I'm sure.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

you are one lucky girl :)

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

I wouldn't break his balls about the phoning home thing, but 5 quid per sibling for Eidi is quite skint.

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

show this to him: D

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

all this fuss over a joke??? :smack: please get a hobby. whine about it when he actually gives them 5 each

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

ok ok, calm down everyone, reason i havent got a job, well i came out of education, had a job but was temp, then got married. he already had and has a job. i wa slooking for one, now im due to give birht this month so not exactly looking for one at the moment.

secondly, im overreacting, i already guessed so, i did make it worse alreayd by texting him at work and accusing him of not doing anything for my siblings family, sigh, thank god he understood my hormones...i dont even understand them. anyway he was upset about what i said, and what i think of him, he said he wanted to cry when he read what i wrote to him. i was already weeping away. i explained what i meant, he said to me i can spend on whatever, and he has said it before, he also said that he has never bought his fmaily anything before, and that he does alot for my siblings, im not sure if i do alot for your siblings was entirely true, not that i see it, but maybe i did overreact, im ready to cry at the drop of a hat nowadays. lets hope it all goes away after this month inshallah,

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

doubt he will now, problly offer a million quid each just to get me satsified. anyway im thinking of different gift ideas…

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

For some reason I dont think it will. :)

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

Having a newborn is more stressful and draining than being pregnant is. Get your head on straight now and appreciate everything you have.