How do you deal with this then?*kanjoosi*

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Re: How do you deal with this then?kanjoosi

@nadz123

and before wedding, when he was trying to woo me…so to speak, i wasnt interested in him, he would buy me stuff, he would come home ( as he was living at uni but he wouls be around alot) with stuff for me, from where he worked, he would buy me anything he thought i would like, now its bit different, now i have to say or he will buy only for bdays/annioversaries not like he used to before marriage. he still gives me money but i always get the feelings he thinks its his money, not ours, cos if its was our money he wouldnt call me fazool karch all the time…im beginning to think spending money on my family is fazool to him, but money on his own family isnt…

Welcome to married life
Learn to live with it … don’t go shopping with him and don’t buy anything in front of him… you’ll learn slowly I’m sure.