Re: How do you control a man?
chachi would be called a feminazi by now 
damn this reminded me of this video don’t know why :-D…yay
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Surely only someone really insecure would feel they need to control their spouse (I don't mean u OP, I think u just used the wrong word :))
Take that approach and u'll be handed the divorce papers in no time..
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A real woman isn't going to be controlled by a man, not is a real man going to want to control his woman. Deep down men want a women to take charge and lead they way, they love that.
If you listen to you husband all the time and let him tell you what to do, deep down he will never respect you.
My chachi said men are like horses that need to be tamed. You ride the horse, horse doesn't ride you.
My chachi is the coolest gal I know.
lol
Glad that Edal chacha and your 'chachi' did not get married together.
Their neighbors would have had great fun. :D
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But honestly, I believe in balance. Respect one another. Of course personalities come in to play. In you are a confident person, and your spouse is shy and timid, of course you are going to have control- regardless of gender. Some people like being in control and some don't. Its just who you are, there isn't a control gene implanted in males.
Women always complain about how they can't control their husbands and they are getting out of hand so I don't know what made EDAL think that deep down women want men to control them.
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lol
Glad that Edal chacha and your 'chachi' did not get married together.
Their neighbors would have had great fun. :D
Everything Allah SWT does is for the best :)
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Satrangi meant to say how to get a man to do things for you not how to control him. there are men and women who have a way of just speaking that's just agreeable and they are able to get their point across in such a way that makes people want to do what they say or see their point of view.
great leaders have had that talent.
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Everything Allah SWT does is for the best :)
Yes! There would not have been any horse riding either. :)
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Good one. :)
lol at ride. I thought it was other way around. ;)
honestly, why does this sound so very sexual
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What do you mean by that?
I don't even know what EDAL meant, people disagreed so I just wrote the opposite to make them happy lol. If thats what he believes, let him be, its his wife. If she wants to be controlled, her choice. I just don't like that he generalized because I don't want a man controlling me.
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honestly, why does this sound so very sexual
Horse riding is a very good clean hobby.
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no not the part that you reworded, the part that diwana interpreted as “the ride” 
anyways, i think edal is a comedian, i always get a laugh out of his comments that are so very out there, all the subsequent comments that follow always make my day, hilarious
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Yes! There would not have been any horse riding either. :)
Horse riding is a very good clean hobby.
you did not mean horse riding, i know you did not or else you would not have put that suggestive wink at the end......or did you, ugh forget it, i am not crazy for thinking that you did mean something sexual
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Hes probably having a laugh behind his computer. He says stuff that just gets everyone boiled up lol.
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What do you mean by that?
I don't even know what EDAL meant, people disagreed so I just wrote the opposite to make them happy lol. If thats what he believes, let him be, its his wife. If she wants to be controlled, her choice. I just don't like that he generalized because I don't want a man controlling me.
His first marriage ended in divorce.. there's a thread about it somewhere..
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you did not mean horse riding, i know you did not or else you would not have put that suggestive wink at the end......or did you, ugh forget it, i am not crazy for thinking that you did mean something sexual
No you are not crazy. Tauba tauba. Did anyone 'suggest' that too?
I just love this winking smilie. Had one similar as my avatar logo too. :)