Re: How do you choose between 2 families/rishtas.
Umm do you have sisters or female cousins, than can kinda talk to the gals, get to know a little bit about them to see if they fit into what you may want out of life. I still think somehow you should be able to talk to them. If still no. Then perhaps get to see them interact with others, see their behavior/personality to give you some insight.