Assalam o Alikum to All! Scenario ; If everything is done by families and now a boy has 2 girls families who are both equally respectable and good etc etc , then how do you choose whom to ask for. Yes both have some negative points but they equal out...For example if one girl has a mother who is better(much more refined) than the others than the others father seems much more cultured than the first so everything evens out.
Now what do you decide on?
@ all ladies : No disrespect is meant by this post and it is a very serious issue for me and my family and I would appreciate your insight. @ all who reply : Thankyou in advance.
p.s the boy has not previously known to or talked to either girl...Just seen them....That is how its done here.
since talkin or meeting arnt the options...ask ur father... ive observed that men take after their fathers... ie their taste in women. ask ur father 2 decide 4 u.