They have such a keen sense of how you are feeling. Yesterday morning I felt really upset with her but decided to be very patient and did not show my frustration, talked lovey-dovey, gave her hug goodbye and all usual routine, then she called me in the evening and started giving me attitude as I bought a different kind of soup broth. When I got home and were watching Bollywood movie I asked her baby why you do baadmizaji and she said because I was mad at her and it ruined her day, I said that I didn't say anything and she said she could feel it even though I didn't say anything.
This is scary, how can someone know your internal feelings?
yes some ladies have this power to do mind reading. but it really sucks and makes your life miserable especially if you are doing a job because it inflates all your emotions after knowing the ill feelings of so many people around you
no, some men are even more intelligent than women, but actually jub allah aap ko koi khoobi deta hy tu aap sy phir aap sy wo saray kaam kerwata hy jo us ny aap k liya rakhay hain
The people whom we live with, or are close to, or interact with regularly know us better. They can detect the slightest change in our facial expressions, our body language, movements, tone, etc. Let’s say that we are stressed about something and trying hard to remain nonchalant, that exertion might manifest outwardly in some subtle way that is detected by others. I do think women are more perceptive though. Maybe because they’re more in tune with emotions and the patterns (body language, tone, etc etc) associated with them.
For me emotions show on my face before I can control them and I think that is true for quite a few people. An observant person only needs a split of a second to recognize that change before the individual becomes aware and takes control of what they show.
That is very true for many eastern people, here people have mastered masking emotions. We deal with some really inconsiderate people who still feel that we like them as we never show our displeasure we feel. I truly feel that couples who are very close their brain waves get in sync. Anthony Robbins was saying that with couples who are really close their breathing also matches.
Bobby1, control over your emotions is not dictated by which side of planet one is from! I am sorry but that is the dumbest thing I have ever read. I was speaking from a biological pov. Also, you yourself have lived in the east from birth until college…
I can easily sense the emotions of those around me, specially my immediate and extended family. I have been able to do so from a very young age. The good thing about it is that once you know the temperature you can work on moving it towards the positive. The downside is that it’s not fun having to put in the effort every time.
I mask my immediate emotions pretty well and deal with them when I am by myself or by sharing it with a friend. I’m 100% eastern too.
i have a very strong sense of awareness so I can tell how people are feeling by the vibe they give off and the other things they don’t say. Some people don’t have that trait, they can’t have it.
I am not sure if you are mature enough to know that emotionalism is cultural and here in your post you totally display that, triggered for absolutely no reason.
I am talking in general, in East many girls are taught that good girls don;t complain and fight for their rights and do sabr, My wife was totally subservient and would not complain even if I was mean towards her, I had to work very hard to make her strong and courageous. There is a difference between non assertive and not having an emotional reaction to everything around you.
LOL. Bob, are your ears deaf to how the youth in the West liberally peppers every other sentence with the F-word and other expletives? You can find examples of this same behavior in contemporary music and across TV programs, too. Are you blind to the social trends among celebrities? Many of them make more headlines for their explosive cat-fights and other drama than they do for their movies and music. And the masses (or sheeples) eat it all up and will gladly tune in for more of the same each week. Sure, I will admit that there is greater mastery of emotions in the professional arena. From executive positions to that of odd-jobs in a supermarket, I have noticed that generally people address the most difficult of customers and clients in a very diplomatic manner. You will find that sort of diplomacy or propriety in a variety of settings, especially where it is required. But at the same time, loss of emotional control is hardly a scarce phenomenon in the Wild Wild West. On the contrary, we are surrounded by examples of this on a daily basis. However, only a severely biased mind (such as your own) will be blind to it. I have to agree with @aqua70 that it is pretty dumb.