And do you think that includes living with them? (As I see in your posts you stress on living with parents).
Also, shouldn't we be informing our parents (by not sounding rude) about Islam and telling them that it's not nice for muslims to watch pooja paat?
hai rama!..first u were after the homosexuals and now u r after the hindus!..
i dont think anything detrimental is going to happen to the kidz if the grandparents watch seom soaps..pleez give us a break..u want old folks to die of broedom first b4 there actual death comes?..
well......lesson learned....save up and buy yourself a retirement home...so you wont be dependent on your children....when old age comes..I would want to have my OWN life..as opposed to spend my old age making someone else's life miserable....not a good way to be remembered when you are gone!!
Well i don't know exactly what kind of people you have come across that makes you feel so bad about elderly people. May be you are too young and haven't seen it all.
My grandmother and my mother had there fair share of fights and family politic stuff. Should i hatre her coz she was unkind to my mother? She i be disrespectful coz she was authoritative?
When i was young i did not like my grandma a lot, but as i grew up, i found how much she loved me.
Now i love both my mother and grandmother (a lot) regardless of whatever went on between them. I understand that my grandmother many a times was harsh and was overbearing, but nontheless she raised my father in difficult times and i owe her for that. I also owe her for all the love she bestowed upon me. And me loving and respecting her does not diminish my love for my mother.
And my mother has never complained that why i love my grandmother, rather she has always appreciated that.
And who suggested that and how.
u r suggesting that with every single post of urs ont hsi thread pretty much..please dont play dumb..
why are u assuming that he elderly WANT to live wiht their kidz int hat age?..why are u assuming that htey will get total love nad care with the dil or even son for that matter?..maybe they dont want to be in such a situation..anywayyzz form most cases iv seen in old age it s only the real daughter that truly loves the paretns and would do anything ..not the tson and certainly no t the dil..if u think by forcing the dil to ‘take care’ of the elderly she will give htem the love and respect they need in old age..then u must be joking!
theres more to love kindness and respect than serving htem food but treating htem like **** otherwise!
Re: How do we treat our elderly
it all comes down to how you raise your children...if you teach them from the start to respect elders and teach them values then they will treat you with respect when grow up.
hai rama!..first u were after the homosexuals and now u r after the hindus!..
Are you a hindu homosexual?
Are you a hindu homosexual?
:CareBear:..no silly!..but i have nothing against them..
:CareBear:..no silly!..but i have nothing against them..
Well that's you. If you want to talk about homosexuality and indian dramas, create another thread. Let's get back to the topic of this thread.
Re: How do we treat our elderly
not all people mistreat their elderly. the presence of elderly and ability to take care of one's elderly is a blessing.
those people who dont care and are mean spirited to elderly forget that one day, there will be their time at them, as well.
hell yeah!
