How do "married off" daughters take care of their parents

[diwana]

Re: How do “married off” daughters take care of their parents

@arshad5

Ok daughters are not “responsible” for in-laws. I take “responsible” to mean that the daughter does not live with the in-laws, and neither she cooks for them or washes their clothes. Yet our all knowing “Islamic” sisters would like to do all the above for their parents after marriage? Because Islam says so, that she must look after per parents only. Do you see my point? Its sad when people complain about people using Islam and practising hindu customs, and at the same time these same people use Islam to also do things that are un-Islamic.

Islam does not stop anyone from being a good human being. Any traditions or customs that don’t stop me from being a good human being, I am proud of even if someone calls them “dogmatic hindu customs”. This is my cultural heritage.

after marriage what khidmat you want to do for your parents?you are of those type of people that complain about your brothers and sisters-in laws and how they treat your own parents and yet want to act in the same way as your sister-in-laws to your own in-laws. What goes around comes around.

Great post!

Both men and women use religion to satisfy their biased ideas.

Some women use religion for not wanting to take care of in-laws.

The way it should be looked at is one you mentioned, being a good human being.

Other way to look at this is, your prents maybe your biological parents, but your inlaws are the biological prents of someone who you married and claim to love.

Hence, there should never be any discrmination against in-laws. Period.