how do i react to this?

fat_spartan · April 27, 2011, 5:01pm

Re: how do i react to this?

ok so people know theres trouble brewing with the MIL, anyway last night me and hubs went out shopping, i havent been out shopping for a week ( HERE in pak, the shops are far and u need a car, and plus it snot normal to just pop out to the shops here) so i needed a few things plus stuff for the baby, etc. we left at 7pm came home by 10…

his mum hit the roof. she said tumhe koi fikr nahi hai apni baby ki, you lot r shopping and mazey say pirr rey ho, while u dnt care if your daughters had her milk or not…where were u etc etc…she said this to me first, i was upset, as i felt we had left baby with her daddi, obvioiusly i was wrong. she also then had a go at my husband when he tried to defend me/us and he said why u always having a go at nadz, she went off on one.

anyway my FIL is great, he saifd he will samjaa her. husband also said we wont leave baby alone anymore.

ok.

now today, shes ill.

now this isnt normal. she always does this.everytime someone says something to her, shes ill the next day meaning we all have swoon after her and instead of her apoligsing, we have to because she makes oit out like shes a victim…its happned before where she will have a go at someone, as soon as they respond, the next day she will fone and say how bimmar shes bcome…so the other person goes running to her aid…
i knew she would do this drama today, so now i have to go AND talk to her rather than the other way round…

plus if she really was sorry, she wouldve text me and told me shes sorry, she instead text her son and gave him a speech on how mazloom she is, and say sorry to nadz for me…

this is all her drama.how can i explain to hubs shes not really ill at all. i know her.

Get “sick” yourself. Show her that you can also play her game.