How do I know if a girl is into me? What are the signs?
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Try providing more details if you want people to give you some useful advice. The question you posted is too generic.
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try to kiss her, if she lets you do it then she likes you … if she slaps you back then you have your answer.
easy peasy!
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Her eyes would turn turmeric steamy blue.
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She would let you know. If you’re doubting and asking this question tells me that she doesn’t.
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Age old question not easy to answer!
This Jinn once gave one wish to some young man who freed him from the bottle!
the young man said he wants the Jinn to build a hi way to Hawaii from the California coast, because the man was afraid of flying or even taking an ocean liner because ships made him sick!
The Jinn replied, "I’m sorry, but I don’t think I can do that. Just think of all the work involved. Think of the huge pilings we would need to hold up that highway and how deep they would have to be to reach the bottom of the ocean. And think of all the cement that would be needed. Plus, since it’s such a long span, there would have to be gas stations and rest stops along the way. No, that’s just too much to ask. Impossible.
The Jinn said Think of another wish." The guy thought for a moment and said, "Well, there is one thing I’ve always wanted to know. I’d like to be able to understand women!
what makes them laugh and cry, why are they so temperamental, why are they so difficult to get along with …you know, what makes them tick?
**The genie thought for a second, then asked, “Do you want that highway with two lanes or four?” ** ![]()
my point is you will never know until you make a genuine effort!
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Thanks for your replies everybody, I appreciate your input! However I don’t think my question was quite answered, and it’s likely cause I didn’t give any details.
Anyways, so I’ll rephrase my question: How can I tell if a girl is interested in me, and this isn’t just about girls I know but even strangers I come across in public or at school/work?
I’ve spoken to girls and sometimes I get the vibe they like me and my friends tell me the same but I wanted a girls perspective on this. So I’d like to know if these signs mean anything?
1.If she plays with her hair when she talks to you?
2.Leans towards you when she talks to you, sometimes leans way too much and she’s wearing a shirt with a deep neckline.
3.Stares at you. (Is it just a habit of hers?)
4.Plays with her hair while staring at you. (Creeps me out a bit).
5.Initiates physical contact (like a handshake or touches your back or arm).
6.Offers you a ride in her car, and you barely know her?
7.Asks too many personal questions and questions about my future plans.
8.Calls you daddy. (She’s probably kidding?)
9.Compliments your haircut.
10.Says you smell good.
11.Laughs even at your lame jokes.
12.Randomly hits/pushes you.
These happened to me with different girls, so I’m just curious if it meant anything.
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^Now, were you even remotely interested in any of those x number of hair-flipping, space-violating, touchy-feely…bordering on physically abusive girls that also suffer from a staring/sniffing problem along with a poor sense of humor and a possible Lolita-complex (if they’re calling you daddy)..?
Cuz if you weren’t interested in them, then there’s really no point to asking unless you’re looking for validation and an ego boost..both of which are really fun I admit…but it still wouldn’t come with 100% accuracy…unless the girl outright told you that she “liked” you. You can’t really determine if someone “likes” you unless they’ve spent a good amount of time getting to know your personality. At best…any of those above listed behaviors would only signal possible subconscious “attraction” toward you…especially if the person doesn’t know you that well.
My unsolicited advice: You seem young and there’s much heartache that comes with falling for someone that you know deep down in the recesses of your heart that you likely won’t have a future with…because either your family won’t approve of her or she’s from a different religion, or you won’t have enough courage or desire to stand up for it..etc …etc. So, it’s better to invest your emotional energies in someone when you actually are ready to get married and when you see that she has the values that would make a good life partner all within the limits/boundaries of deen so that neither of you will have any regrets later. Anything done with lesser intentions is just “time pass” and tends to come with unsavory consequences for either one or both persons.
Until then…happy deciphering, Sherlock.
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All of these girls are very attractive, it’s just that I don’t like to talk much so I don’t understand women and I only want to pursue a girl if I’m 100% sure she likes me cause I don’t deal well with rejection. As for race or religion, all of these girls are from different backgrounds and to me it doesn’t matter much.
My question is for the ladies, what does it mean when you do any of the stuff I mentioned? Does it mean nothing?
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Ay help a brother out
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The stuff you listed above…they could mean many different things. I’ve been married for years I do many of the things you listed with guys I know/meet (initiate handshake, touch arm/back when talking, laughing at lame jokes, giving compliments etc.). It doesn’t mean that I’m interested in them romantically. Many girls have a habit of doing things like touching their hair, asking nosy/personal questions etc. Many girls out there like to show their cleavage at any chance they get. And I don’t know what kind of girls you’re meeting but calling a guy “daddy” is just weird and something I’ve never heard of anyone doing unless it’s in the middle of kinky $ex play.
Stop trying to read tea leaves. The part in red is a big problem that you need to work on. There are no guarantees when it comes to relationships. And even if a girl is interested in your now, it doesn’t guarantee that she won’t change her mind once she gets to know you better. Even getting married doesn’t guarantee that she won’t divorce you someday.
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The kid is scared already and you tell him this. ![]()
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Seems more like a weirdo than a kid
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Lel I’m a “weirdo” for asking girl advice but you’re not for posting cheesy betaboy comments all over gupshup, pathetic.
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just ask her, if she’s into you or not. it cant be that hard
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How do I do that?
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Lel I’m a “weirdo” for asking girl advice but you’re not for posting cheesy betaboy comments all over gupshup./QUOTE
My assessment of slime stands dude be a man and don’t be a creep.
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Lel I’m a “weirdo” for asking girl advice but you’re not for posting cheesy betaboy comments all over gupshup.
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My assessment of slime stands dude be a man and don’t be a creep.[/QUOTE]
You need to be more specific, how am I creep? You don’t know me, stop acting like a bitter old aunty on here.
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if you are interested in a girl, you can casually ask her if she is interested in you.. if she says yes, you can move forward, if not, then you can decide whether to not bring it up again, or maybe pursue her?
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Dang, so it’s that simple with desi girls. Just ask them?