That’s what i am thinking. Grow some balls, walk over to her and ask her out. POINT FKING BLANK.
Two possibilites:
:queen: --I like this guy so much, but he is such a effiminate beta moron. I have been dropping hints like crazy, but this nigga is so dimwitted and doesnt get it, OR,
:queen:-- hassani is, like, so sweet. I really like him as a friend. But, ewwwww,. i could never imagine going out with him.
--Hi, i am hassani. I am cynical guy and cant handle rejections. I dont have the guts and ask her out.
Friendship is not a beauriful thing when the guy (girl) secretly likes the girl (guy), but the girl only sees him as a friend. You are better off being friendless. Love is a two way street, son. If it is not reciprocated, but you continue to pursue it, love can leave your self-esteem in quite a disarray.
Thanks for the replies everyone.
Kashmiri- I appreciate you motivating me into going and telling her
Dope- lol, yea you're right too.
See the thing is, I just found out from her friend that her father passed away a few years ago and I was just shocked because she's mentioned her father a few times but never told me that he had passed away. It's just made me think about how strong she is and at the same time understand her a bit more. I really care for her ALOT. She's a shy girl and conservative , but not a totally religious person. She really cares for her education and wants to be successful and independent so she can support her mother and sister [that's what I assume]. Part of the reason I won't say anything now is because I guess I still have time. I don't want her to know I like her in the middle of so many other things going on like school, etc. She has enough on her mind.
I hope I'm always there for her because I know she needs someone to be there for her [she might not think so, but I know, otherwise our friendship wouldn't have developed into what it is now]. I mean, this isn't a movie or a PTV drama where a Pakistani guy and girl just become really good friends and all good things happen. I never felt like befriending a girl before, let alone a Pakistani girl because I never really cared , I mean how close can a Pakistani guy and girl be without wanting to marry each other. Not to sound like I avoided girls but I was just neutral to them. I never really liked the whole idea of a Pakistani girl[guy] having 1000 guy[girl] friends, just because it's accepted, and trying to be good friends with about 800 of those guys.
Along came this girl, it was the same at first, but then I later realized that I want to be good friends with her for some reason. Everymoment with her was special for me because I never knew we'd be still keeping in touch and seeing each other a year later.
I realize now that I care for her alot and I'm preparing myself to let her know how I feel when the right time comes[when we're about to say goodbye]. I've dropped many hints that I like her. Her friend even mentioned it to her "you know, he likes you alot" So she replies back to her "oh noo, I don't think he likes me like that." But then again, why would a girl waste her time with a guy that she probably knows likes her. I remember she would bring up things we talked about a long time ago and so would I. It would surprise both of us that we still remember our conversations. I just wish the best for her and when the time comes, Insha'Allah I will tell her.
P.S. They say that the eyes say everything, and we've had our share of those "eye to eye" moments. I remember this one time we were reviewing right before an exam and I asked her a question regarding the test and so she was explaining it to me. We were looking at each other and I could tell she was trying very hard not to smile, and so was I. I had to look away for a few seconds because it was just hard not to smile.
--Hi, i am hassani. I am cynical guy and cant handle rejections. I dont have the guts and ask her out.