well expanding on the pinching test, do this: When she has her back on you, surprise her by pinching her butt. If she doesn’t do/say anything, then thats a green light. She is obviously liking that and ur set.
But if that doesnt work and she gives u a nasty glare and reaches for her chappli, then just start jumping up and down and while clapping say, “Baji darr gayee , baji darr gayee”.
I call this the nuclear option, cuz as u can see either uve made her ur “honay walli” or ur “baji”. Hope this helps.
Well, in your case it may not be a mistake. But generally I’ll advise people not to discuss their love with someone whom they don’t trust absolutely. And sharing your feelings with some friend of the girl you love is more often a mistake then not. I hope in your case it is different. But if I were you, I would try to figure out some way to talk to her myself. You need to a be a little cautious though. Also consider what PCG has said. Girls often use boys as ‘study-support’. I’m not saying that she’s doing that to you. But you need to be careful.
r u good in studies…
if u r she may be using u for the help… …she needs while studing…
hummm thats wat i do mostly.. ( its me)..(not in -ve sence ya know just as study buddy)
u know things just can’t get serious at this stage,there is lot invloved in stuff like love…
Try talking other than studies…on more genral topics in life:)
.............ask what she likes and what she doesen't.....then bring the conversation round to wats her philosophy of life then to wat sort of boys she likes and did she had any crush on anyone .......just talk her around u might find the glimps of what u looking for
I think the last thing he needs is to involve his parents! It’s a bit drastic to “send a proposal” isn’t it…i mean he hasn’t even told this girl he likes her…
**Hassan **I agree with belle…the only realistic thing u can do is tell her how u feel…get it out in the open air and stop torturing urself…a lot of guys end up seeing the girl they were once interested in, end up with another guy (sometimes even their friend), she cud just be waiting for someone to come up to her…u say she’s a great gal, so stop worrying about the outcome and at least try, cos u’ll never know until u try and if u don’t u may feel stupid later on…u already have a good foundation don’t u, the friendship…even though u may not wana screw that up, u have to decide if it’s a risk worth taking good luck.
6 months on and you still haven’t nailed her? Oh dear
Anyway, don’t take the advice about telling her how you feel, theres a good chance she’ll reject you and considering you have classes again this semester it would make things even more complicated. Thats the last thing you want during your studies. Stay good friends for now and concentrate on developing that.
^ Maybe ur right but how is there a good chance she’ll reject him? I think he shud be more positive than that…ok so if she says no and he will have to see her in classes so wot, at least he knows he tried…and on the other hand, wot if he didn’t even ask her and then feels like an idiot when he sees this girl around school with another bloke…that’s gotta hurt too…
I was part of a situation like this back in college, there were a couple of guys who liked me at the start of one term and amongst themselves were trying to figure out who was gona ask me out for valentine’s day, lolzz it really was ridiculous but anyway…guy1 was really shy when it came to girls, talkative, bit social just a lil shy and really into school…then there was guy2 who was not shy at all, really outgoing and a dj, always around girls…now, guy1 really liked me and guy2 knew this and vice versa…guy2 even said “go ahead man, ask her” cos they were friends…but guy1 i guess was taking too much time trying to figure out how he wud ask me so, guy2 finally said “look man, i really like this girl too so i’m gona go ask her now alrite”…long story short, today me n guy2 are still together and are engaged…as for guy1, we remained good friends for a couple of yrs until i cut off from him cos he was acting weird all the time and wasn’t being a friend really…
My point is, i know it’s hard sometimes for guys to approach girls cos of fear of rejection but…in some cases, it’s just impossible to remain friends after u have feelings for the girl…i mean this guy, even yrs later still tells me he wishes me n him wud have gotten togther! It can be kinda heartbreaking, so i guess u gotta think both sides thru rite…my advice wud be to just think about if u really think this girl is worth it and how brave u r to take the plunge…again good luck, whichever path u choose…
^ Nah, it's not fun...unless u love getting attention and the spotlight on u at college all the time! I'm quiet and shy so i didn't like all the fuss :(
( its me)..(not in -ve sence ya know just as study buddy)
