Re: How do I find “the one”?
^ So how is he a potential then if you both have decided to be friends 
Just the way our nature works, when we don’t want it - it wants us. Forget about men; and they’ll come running to you.
Re: How do I find “the one”?
lol well by potential i mean hes a great guy, someone i would definitly give a chance to.
Re: How do I find “the one”?
being a guy.. i would go to some cool bar/club.. hang around.. and most probably .. will get ssome .. maybe for sometime/night.. or ..you never know..
if you artistic type a person, ..take that camera out, clear the dust.. charge the battery ... and just go out for hanging around the cultural places in the city..
be courteous & elegant.. .. ..
third way can be... hmm.. Pm me ;)
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LOL ^^^^ after reading ur 1st line i dont think ANYONE would PM u ;)
Re: How do I find “the one”?
^ Don't be afraid to go out on a limb. That's where the fruit is ;)
You know I really wish they had some good matrimonial sites. I only know of shaadi.com and I don't think I'll put myself up there..that site is just..no..won't work
i dunno much in this regard but i think most paid sites r better than free sites n then there r some muslim matrimonial sites too. how abt shadionline that comes on geo?
i'll look into it if i can find any good sites for u
One a secong thought GS should hav one forum for this purpose too
anonymous786 u r looking for someone so is amirpindi
Do u get what im saying or shall i explain in depth
I can almost guarantee you that they were thinking about getting you engaged (without "mentioning" it) the day you were born. :)
Because they're parents. The worry switch was switched on full force the moment you came into this world. They worry because they love you and want to see you settled.
So let them mention it. And really listen to what they have to say. Meet with whoever they want you to meet with good grace. Within limits of course. If something doesn't feel right to you, talk to them and tell them you'd rather not meet with the guy.
And just keep praying and hang on. I was in your shoes nearly ten years ago. A lot of times I nearly gave up and decided to just say yes to someone who seemed decent because I couldn't take the stress and pressure. I'm glad I didn't. I'm glad I kept praying and waited until I was absolutely sure. Or I would never have met my "one" and be as wonderfully happy as I am now.
you're probably right. thanks for all the suggestions! and i'm glad everything worked out nicely :)
being a guy.. i would go to some cool bar/club.. hang around.. and most probably .. will get ssome .. maybe for sometime/night.. or ..you never know..
if you artistic type a person, ..take that camera out, clear the dust.. charge the battery ... and just go out for hanging around the cultural places in the city..
be courteous & elegant.. .. ..
third way can be... hmm.. Pm me ;)
will get "some"? please elaborate what you mean by that
and I actually am the artistic type..maybe I'll take your advice
and lastly, I'll think about it ;)
anonymous786 u r looking for someone so is amirpindi
Do u get what im saying or shall i explain in depth
LOL amirpindi probably lives in pindi
he lives in uk i think
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still too far
Okay, I know what everyone’s thinking. I’m not the only one! Everyone goes through this and you don’t necessarily have to “find” the guy yourself but I’m sick of waiting. I’m not that old, I know I have time but I would really like to have a significant other in my life. As superficial as it may sound, I (you don’t have to agree with me) feel you can only achieve true happiness when you have someone special in your life.
I’ve had somebody in my life, don’t have them anymore and I would really like having someone special in my life! I’m sick of waiting. My parent’s have never nagged me about getting married but even they’ve started talking about how I should be getting engaged within the next year or so because I’m “of age”. I’m scared to death of being married to someone and not being in love with them (love = happiness..for me). That’s something I’d never do, and my parents know it but how long can I wait?! How does a Pakistani, Muslim girl go about finding “the one” in this day and age. I can’t wait for “him to come to me” because I’ve waited and it’s not happening!
Believe it or not, I do have a life..although it may not sound like it because I’m saying all this here. I have friends, no one I’m interested in getting serious with though. I don’t go clubbing and okay I’m not THE most social person in the world, I might not make myself as available as I could, but that’s something you’re refrained from doing being a Muslim girl. What do I do? What CAN I do? I feel that you should get to know a person for a while before you plan on marrying them and it’s about time I started getting to know someone if I’m going to marry them in a couple of years! (I know that’s not how it has to be but that’s how I’d like it)
And yes, I do pray for things I want, but what can I do OTHER than that, suggestions please!
ok get out more often. let or friends and family take you places. you never know you could just meet the perfect person at the next event your friends and fam drag you too.
So yea get out more often!
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ok so i googled n found some of these sites
www.muslimfriends.com
www.decentrishtay.com
www.urdumatrimony.com
www.pakistanimatrimony.com
www.mehndi.com
www.apnatoronto.com
they look somewat fine to me but they need registration for in depth browsing. n they all r free i think
^ Don't be afraid to go out on a limb. That's where the fruit is ;)
Kya matlab?? elaborate please :ASA:
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I see a connection with another thread... ´Who wants to be a Princess´
Okay, I know what everyone’s thinking. I’m not the only one! Everyone goes through this and you don’t necessarily have to “find” the guy yourself but I’m sick of waiting. I’m not that old, I know I have time but I would really like to have a significant other in my life. As superficial as it may sound, I (you don’t have to agree with me) feel you can only achieve true happiness when you have someone special in your life.
I’ve had somebody in my life, don’t have them anymore and I would really like having someone special in my life! I’m sick of waiting. My parent’s have never nagged me about getting married but even they’ve started talking about how I should be getting engaged within the next year or so because I’m “of age”. I’m scared to death of being married to someone and not being in love with them (love = happiness..for me). That’s something I’d never do, and my parents know it but how long can I wait?! How does a Pakistani, Muslim girl go about finding “the one” in this day and age. I can’t wait for “him to come to me” because I’ve waited and it’s not happening!
Believe it or not, I do have a life..although it may not sound like it because I’m saying all this here. I have friends, no one I’m interested in getting serious with though. I don’t go clubbing and okay I’m not THE most social person in the world, I might not make myself as available as I could, but that’s something you’re refrained from doing being a Muslim girl. What do I do? What CAN I do? I feel that you should get to know a person for a while before you plan on marrying them and it’s about time I started getting to know someone if I’m going to marry them in a couple of years! (I know that’s not how it has to be but that’s how I’d like it)
And yes, I do pray for things I want, but what can I do OTHER than that, suggestions please!
I just came across your message and I must say the dilemma your going through is exactly what im going through.
I do have the freedom to find someone myself, but I feel life is too busy with working 5 days a week. I had the perfect chance when i was at uni but all the guys were not the type i would like to marry, but now its a question of how to find the one and where?
Anyway I really hope and pray you find someone inshallah.
where were you girls, when I wasnt married?? i had the exact same situation, i wanted to find someone special myself but at the end had to go for good old arranged marriage! it had its own initial problems, now it all smooth and working out fine if not perfect.
with age of just 22 any..786 you have next couple of years to find someone, dont look too hard, he will come to you one fine day. if you are studying, thats easy but then you will hardly find serious ones there, as most of the guys at that age only looking for fun nothing more. but there will be many who are just like yourself, trying to find someone and staying behind. so look for those ones too.
finding someone online is also good, we have some working marriages out of GS now. you can see how people are writing here, get the idea about their personality not always as people portray and pretend with no limits as its online thing.
friends and family, college and uni, online here or some only serious sites about martimony
these are your best bets. but dont overkill yourself.
Okay, I know what everyone’s thinking. I’m not the only one! Everyone goes through this and you don’t necessarily have to “find” the guy yourself but I’m sick of waiting. I’m not that old, I know I have time but I would really like to have a significant other in my life. As superficial as it may sound, I (you don’t have to agree with me) feel you can only achieve true happiness when you have someone special in your life.
I’ve had somebody in my life, don’t have them anymore and I would really like having someone special in my life! I’m sick of waiting. My parent’s have never nagged me about getting married but even they’ve started talking about how I should be getting engaged within the next year or so because I’m “of age”. I’m scared to death of being married to someone and not being in love with them (love = happiness..for me). That’s something I’d never do, and my parents know it but how long can I wait?! How does a Pakistani, Muslim girl go about finding “the one” in this day and age. I can’t wait for “him to come to me” because I’ve waited and it’s not happening!
Believe it or not, I do have a life..although it may not sound like it because I’m saying all this here. I have friends, no one I’m interested in getting serious with though. I don’t go clubbing and okay I’m not THE most social person in the world, I might not make myself as available as I could, but that’s something you’re refrained from doing being a Muslim girl. What do I do? What CAN I do? I feel that you should get to know a person for a while before you plan on marrying them and it’s about time I started getting to know someone if I’m going to marry them in a couple of years! (I know that’s not how it has to be but that’s how I’d like it)
And yes, I do pray for things I want, but what can I do OTHER than that, suggestions please!
To find the one my dear, you must choose between the Red Pill or the Blue Pill and see how deep the rabbit hole goes? in to the Matrix!